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    19 Things Only People Who Are Confident But Shy Will Understand

    You're the life and soul of the party in front of your friends, but in front of new people you're a completely different person.

    1. In your day-to-day life, you'd probably describe yourself as a pretty confident person.

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    2. Especially when you're around your friends.

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    3. But when you meet new people, you're a completely different person.

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    4. People tend to comment on the difference between how you were when they first met you...

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    5. ...versus how you are now.

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    6. Sometimes you're the life and soul of the party.

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    7. Other times, you retreat to a corner and try not to be noticed.

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    8. You love trying new things, but hate new situations.

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    9. And you absolutely despise being the new kid at school or at work because your real personality doesn't get to shine through.

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    10. Even though you're confident in your work, you're always too shy to show it to anyone.

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    It literally makes you cringe.

    11. And as soon as you start to fancy someone even a little bit you become SUPER shy too.

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    12. Which means that having a crush is completely out of the question.

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    It makes you way too vulnerable, and that's no fun.

    13. You don't mind attention, in fact, sometimes you thrive on it.

    14. But you hate TOO much attention.

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    Like everyone looking at you if you come into a room late. NO THANKS.

    15. People always expect you to be in charge of group presentations because you're seen as the most confident.

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    16. But speaking in front of a large room of people is actually when you're the shyest.

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    17. And while you're fine to have a conversation in person, you absolutely hate talking on the phone.

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    18. So sure, even though you definitely have your shy moments.

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    19. Most days you feel pretty damn confident.

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    To be precise, you're a solid 83.5% confident.

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