22 Things That Will Be Way Too Real If You're A Girl Who Likes Girls
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Spotting a lesbian in the wild can be tricky.
But there is definitely a secret lesbian uniform that some people choose to wear.
It can be difficult knowing whether you want to be someone, or have sex with someone.
Even if you have a girlfriend you still get that useful monthly reminder that you're not pregnant.
Straight people are always asking how you actually have sex.
And they always seem to assume that it involves some kind of vagina-vagina wizardry.
Sometimes it seems like the only time girls hit on you is when they want a threesome with their boyfriend.
After you come out to people they'll start thinking that all your friends are you "special friends."
Occasionally you use the world gay as an insult because you're so used to hearing it that way.
Some stereotypes are painfully true.
But other's won't apply to you at all.
Meeting a new girl who is also into girls is a big deal.
Your representation in the media boils down to Orange Is The New Black, The L Word, and a couple of other bit parts.
And even though The L Word wasn't the best show you've ever seen, it's pretty much all you've got, so you've watched it all twice.
We had to wait like 6 years after Grindr first hit the scene before we finally got our own app that people actually use.
There is way too much group incest in girl-on-girl communities.
If your straight friends meet a lesbian they will try and set you up with her.
There aren't many lesbian bars so most of the times you go out it's to straight or gay men bars.
And trying to flirt with a girl that you're not sure is on your team is a minefield.
Nothing is worse than your first crush on a straight girl.
Basically, to find other girls to get with you have to be savvy.
Because a single, hot, girl who's into girls can sometimes seem like an endangered species.
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