Tell Me Which Green Flags Your Partner Showed Early On In Your Relationship

    Share your story with me!

    At least in my own experience, red flags in relationships are talked about wayyy more often than green flags.

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    However, I think it's important to talk more openly about qualities in people that make for a healthy, loving relationship.

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    So I'm turning to the married folks of the BuzzFeed Community to ask: what green flags did you notice early on that made you realize your significant other was spouse material?

    Maybe when you were dating your now-spouse, their consideration and thoughtfulness stuck out to you so much that you knew they'd made a great life partner.

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    Or perhaps you noticed early on how open-minded and communicative your partner is — two qualities that are really important to you.

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    Perhaps another green flag you learned early on was how honest your partner is.

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    Whatever green flag you spotted in your partner, I want to hear about it! Share it with me in this anonymous form or in the comments below.

    Some responses might be featured in a BuzzFeed Community post.