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15 Relationship Arguments So Strong They Cause Breakups

Let's see if we can get through this without anyone getting the silent treatment.

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Erin Chack
Erin Chack
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  1. 1. Is it OK to use your partner's toothbrush?

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    Sure, we've swapped spit before. What's the difference?
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    Sure, we've swapped spit before. What's the difference?
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    Ew, no, get your own!
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    Ew, no, get your own!
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1. Is it OK to use your partner's toothbrush?
  1. Sure, we've swapped spit before. What's the difference?
     
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    Sure, we've swapped spit before. What's the difference?
  2. Ew, no, get your own!
     
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    Ew, no, get your own!
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  1. 2. Do you fart in front of your partner?

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    You bet!
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    You bet!
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    No, we don't do that.
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    No, we don't do that.
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2. Do you fart in front of your partner?
  1. You bet!
     
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    You bet!
  2. No, we don't do that.
     
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    No, we don't do that.
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  1. 3. Do you have an open-door policy when someone's on the toilet?

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    Sure! Nothing they haven't seen before.
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    Sure! Nothing they haven't seen before.
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    No way! That's private time. Is nothing sacred?!
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    No way! That's private time. Is nothing sacred?!
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3. Do you have an open-door policy when someone's on the toilet?
  1. Sure! Nothing they haven't seen before.
     
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    Sure! Nothing they haven't seen before.
  2. No way! That's private time. Is nothing sacred?!
     
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    No way! That's private time. Is nothing sacred?!
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  1. 4. Is it OK to watch a show you started with your partner without them present?

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    Are you HEARTLESS? You HAVE to watch your show together!
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    Are you HEARTLESS? You HAVE to watch your show together!
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    It's fine, they can catch up later.
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    It's fine, they can catch up later.
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4. Is it OK to watch a show you started with your partner without them present?
  1. Are you HEARTLESS? You HAVE to watch your show together!
     
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    Are you HEARTLESS? You HAVE to watch your show together!
  2. It's fine, they can catch up later.
     
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    It's fine, they can catch up later.
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  1. 5. Do you believe in love at first sight?

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    Of course!
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    Of course!
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    No, I'm a realist.
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    No, I'm a realist.
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5. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  1. Of course!
     
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    Of course!
  2. No, I'm a realist.
     
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    No, I'm a realist.
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  1. 6. Do you believe in soulmates?

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    Yes!!! Everyone has their person.
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    Yes!!! Everyone has their person.
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    I already told you, I'm a realist.
    I already told you, I'm a realist.
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6. Do you believe in soulmates?
  1. Yes!!! Everyone has their person.
     
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    Yes!!! Everyone has their person.
  2. I already told you, I'm a realist.
     
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    I already told you, I'm a realist.
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  1. 7. Once a cheater...

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    ALWAYS a cheater!
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    ALWAYS a cheater!
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    Eh, people change.
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    Eh, people change.
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7. Once a cheater...
  1. ALWAYS a cheater!
     
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    ALWAYS a cheater!
  2. Eh, people change.
     
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    Eh, people change.
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  1. 8. Do you have a joint bank account?

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    Yep! What's mine is theirs, after all.
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    Yep! What's mine is theirs, after all.
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    This is MY money. They have their own.
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    This is MY money. They have their own.
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8. Do you have a joint bank account?
  1. Yep! What's mine is theirs, after all.
     
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    Yep! What's mine is theirs, after all.
  2. This is MY money. They have their own.
     
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    This is MY money. They have their own.
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  1. 9. Is PDA acceptable?

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    A little kissy-kissy in public can't hurt...
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    A little kissy-kissy in public can't hurt...
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    No thanks!
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    No thanks!
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9. Is PDA acceptable?
  1. A little kissy-kissy in public can't hurt...
     
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    A little kissy-kissy in public can't hurt...
  2. No thanks!
     
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    No thanks!
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  1. 10. Can you be with someone who can't stand your family?

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    It sucks, but we'll manage.
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    It sucks, but we'll manage.
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    I don't think we can work that out.
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    I don't think we can work that out.
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10. Can you be with someone who can't stand your family?
  1. It sucks, but we'll manage.
     
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    It sucks, but we'll manage.
  2. I don't think we can work that out.
     
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    I don't think we can work that out.
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  1. 11. Can you be with someone who can't stand your best friend?

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    No way. My best friend comes first.
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    No way. My best friend comes first.
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    It's not the end of the world if they don't get along.
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    It's not the end of the world if they don't get along.
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11. Can you be with someone who can't stand your best friend?
  1. No way. My best friend comes first.
     
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    No way. My best friend comes first.
  2. It's not the end of the world if they don't get along.
     
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    It's not the end of the world if they don't get along.
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  1. 12. If you want kids and your partner doesn't, is that grounds for a breakup?

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    Absolutely. You can't fix that.
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    Absolutely. You can't fix that.
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    Nah, I could compromise for my partner.
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    Nah, I could compromise for my partner.
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12. If you want kids and your partner doesn't, is that grounds for a breakup?
  1. Absolutely. You can't fix that.
     
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    Absolutely. You can't fix that.
  2. Nah, I could compromise for my partner.
     
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    Nah, I could compromise for my partner.
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  1. 13. Is it OK for your partner to be close with their ex?

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    Sure! It's a free country.
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    Sure! It's a free country.
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    I'm not comfortable with that.
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    I'm not comfortable with that.
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13. Is it OK for your partner to be close with their ex?
  1. Sure! It's a free country.
     
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    Sure! It's a free country.
  2. I'm not comfortable with that.
     
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    I'm not comfortable with that.
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  1. 14. Do you share chores?

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    Yes, we've worked out a fair system.
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    Yes, we've worked out a fair system.
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    One of us does most of the chores.
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    One of us does most of the chores.
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14. Do you share chores?
  1. Yes, we've worked out a fair system.
     
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    Yes, we've worked out a fair system.
  2. One of us does most of the chores.
     
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    One of us does most of the chores.
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  1. 15. Which one of you pays on dates?

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    We split it 50-50 or we alternate or we have another egalitarian system.
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    We split it 50-50 or we alternate or we have another egalitarian system.
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    One of us pays most of the time.
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    One of us pays most of the time.
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15. Which one of you pays on dates?
  1. We split it 50-50 or we alternate or we have another egalitarian system.
     
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    We split it 50-50 or we alternate or we have another egalitarian system.
  2. One of us pays most of the time.
     
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    One of us pays most of the time.
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