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22 Thoughtful Gifts For Your Friend Who Needs To Get Laid

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1. A customer-favorite wand vibrator that packs a serious punch despite its compact size — they can use one of its 20 settings to hitch a ride to O-town.

Promising review: "All I can say is WOW. I love this thing! I have a lot of sex toys, including a Hitachi — which I used right after this to compare. This Shibari is easily my new favorite toy of all time. It's super powerful but not in the way that can hurt a bit like the Hitachi. Absolutely mind-blowing and got the job done within a minute, literally. I think I discovered a new kind of orgasm. Definitely would buy again." —Amazon CustomerRead a full review of this product here.Get it from Amazon for $29.95 (available in black and pink).
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Promising review: "All I can say is WOW. I love this thing! I have a lot of sex toys, including a Hitachi — which I used right after this to compare. This Shibari is easily my new favorite toy of all time. It's super powerful but not in the way that can hurt a bit like the Hitachi. Absolutely mind-blowing and got the job done within a minute, literally. I think I discovered a new kind of orgasm. Definitely would buy again." —Amazon Customer

Read a full review of this product here.

Get it from Amazon for $29.95 (available in black and pink).

2. Quite possibly the most elegant package of condoms you've ever seen.

"The Quickie" includes two ultra-thin lubricated latex condoms and one bottle of organic personal lubricant made with aloe.Get it from Maude for $10.
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"The Quickie" includes two ultra-thin lubricated latex condoms and one bottle of organic personal lubricant made with aloe.

Get it from Maude for $10.

3. Or, a more ~deluxe~ bag that includes all the essentials for a satisfying night (....or morning, or afternoon).

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The "Oh! To Go" ba includes a zip vibe, jelly lube, Jolt clitoral gel, a G-spot stimulation serum, a latex condom, and a Booshies wipe.

Promising review: "This purse pack is a solution to the following situations I've experienced: 'I don't have a condom, either.' Let's end this. 'No, I didn't finish.' I can't count the number to times I wished I'd had a tiny vibe after sex. In my experience, a mini vibe like this would have enhanced every sexual encounter. Before and after. 'Were you into it? You weren't wet this time.' HUGE DISCLAIMER: that can happen to any girl. No shame! 'I feel gross.' Nope, not after a Booshie." —Jane

Get it from Unbound for $34.

4. A subscription to Frisky Britches, so they'll never have to run to the store to buy emergency underwear on laundry day again.

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Each delivery features two brand-name panties a month and includes a selection of colorful and comfy pairs.

Promising review: "Love this monthly shipment. I've gotten two months and in really enjoying the selection I receive. The panties are high quality, sexy and comfortable. The styles and colors are of a nice variety too. For the price it's definitely worth it." —Alexandra

Get it for $12.83/month (and use code HOLIDAY at checkout to get a 20% discount!).

5. This 9.5-inch rabbit vibrator with nine different settings, because it knows there isn't a one-speed-fits-all when it comes to the big O.

Promising review: "First, I would like to mention that this came in very discreet packaging. It was a standard Amazon box and inside was a plain black box. When I opened it, there was no chemical smell and it felt soft and smooth to the touch. There is an instructional menu but it is very easy to use. Hold the power button to turn on and then press a button to cycle through many different vibration options. It is so quiet by the way, which was a big plus for me. Charging it is a breeze and it charges quickly and holds a charge well. It can also be used for a while before you need to hook it up again. As for using it. God damn. It had my toes curling and my heart racing. Definitely something I would recommend." —Clair TaylorGet it from Amazon for $28.99 (available in purple and pink) and find even more toys to get anyone in the mood here.
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Promising review: "First, I would like to mention that this came in very discreet packaging. It was a standard Amazon box and inside was a plain black box. When I opened it, there was no chemical smell and it felt soft and smooth to the touch. There is an instructional menu but it is very easy to use. Hold the power button to turn on and then press a button to cycle through many different vibration options. It is so quiet by the way, which was a big plus for me. Charging it is a breeze and it charges quickly and holds a charge well. It can also be used for a while before you need to hook it up again. As for using it. God damn. It had my toes curling and my heart racing. Definitely something I would recommend." —Clair Taylor

Get it from Amazon for $28.99 (available in purple and pink) and find even more toys to get anyone in the mood here.

6. A set of body-care essentials made with hydrating coconut oil that'll have them feeling like their best self before they dive between the sheets — aka with super-moisturized skin, soft lips, and smelling delightful.

The set includes four best-selling, coconut-scented items by Kopari: Coconut Melt moisturizer, natural deodorant, hydrating face cream, and "Lip Glossy" lip gloss.Promising review: "Kopari has been tabbed on my computer as a brand I wanted to try out for a while. I finally took the plunge last week and I am beyond pleased! The products smell heavenly, and my skin is already thanking me for the extra hydration needed during this time of year. I bought this set to try out a couple of products before purchasing the full sized ones, and let me just tell you that I will now be buying the full size of each item! I'm thinking of getting this set for my sisters for Christmas!" —Autumn LeaderGet it from Sephora or Kopari for $40.
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The set includes four best-selling, coconut-scented items by Kopari: Coconut Melt moisturizer, natural deodorant, hydrating face cream, and "Lip Glossy" lip gloss.

Promising review: "Kopari has been tabbed on my computer as a brand I wanted to try out for a while. I finally took the plunge last week and I am beyond pleased! The products smell heavenly, and my skin is already thanking me for the extra hydration needed during this time of year. I bought this set to try out a couple of products before purchasing the full sized ones, and let me just tell you that I will now be buying the full size of each item! I'm thinking of getting this set for my sisters for Christmas!" —Autumn Leader

Get it from Sephora or Kopari for $40.

7. A bidet attachment, because nothing says you care more about your pal having hygienic intercourse than a device to keep their booty squeaky-clean.

Read our full review of this bidet here.Promising review: "Speaking as a hirsute gentleman, the Luxe Bidet Neo 120 has soured me on pooping in bidet-less toilets forever. It's shown me the difference between rubbing peanut butter out of shag carpeting with a paper towel, and that sparkling clean feeling you get right when you step out of the shower." —MercuryGet it from Amazon for $34.50 (available in two colors).
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Read our full review of this bidet here.

Promising review: "Speaking as a hirsute gentleman, the Luxe Bidet Neo 120 has soured me on pooping in bidet-less toilets forever. It's shown me the difference between rubbing peanut butter out of shag carpeting with a paper towel, and that sparkling clean feeling you get right when you step out of the shower." —Mercury

Get it from Amazon for $34.50 (available in two colors).

8. A best-selling vibrating cock ring that's quiet and waterproof, for solo or couples' play rain or shine.

Promising review: "The packaging was discreet. I pulled the ring out and showed it to my husband joking around about how it looked small. It stretches... and he needs it to because he is on the gigantic side below deck. So I had never used a cock ring shaped like this. I have a few with a horizontal bullet; this is my first time using a vertical one. I don't see myself ever going back to horizontal. This bullet hit the perfect spot every time. I did not need to move or readjust and neither did he. Who likes having to stop in the middle of things? My husband is good at what he does, I had no complaints. This toy, however, upped the yowzer factor by a megaton. We were both left shaky and blissful. The strength is amazing for such a small little toy." —Cassie LewisGet it from Amazon for $25.96.
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Promising review: "The packaging was discreet. I pulled the ring out and showed it to my husband joking around about how it looked small. It stretches... and he needs it to because he is on the gigantic side below deck. So I had never used a cock ring shaped like this. I have a few with a horizontal bullet; this is my first time using a vertical one. I don't see myself ever going back to horizontal. This bullet hit the perfect spot every time. I did not need to move or readjust and neither did he. Who likes having to stop in the middle of things? My husband is good at what he does, I had no complaints. This toy, however, upped the yowzer factor by a megaton. We were both left shaky and blissful. The strength is amazing for such a small little toy." —Cassie Lewis

Get it from Amazon for $25.96.

9. Or a subscription box delivered to their door that does all the sex-toy curation for you.

Unbound Babes

Each quarterly delivery of Unbound Babes includes four to seven high-quality vibrators, dildos, lubes, and other accessories made with body-safe materials.

Promising review: "I love Unbound!! Not only are their products super high quality and well made, their brand message and copy is fun and makes the whole experience less intimidating, especially when I share them with all my friends!! I would totally recommend this (and already have!)." —Nina

Get it for $65/three months.

10. A hand-poured massage candle made with skin-softening jojoba oil and notes of amber, cedar leaf, lemongrass, tonka bean, and Medjool date, to help them set the mood.

It can be poured on the skin once melted or you can just use it to make your room smell delightful.Promising review: "I am obsessed with this candle. I love the smell so much that I have been lighting it just to rub the oil on my hands and neck for the day. I am planning on stocking up so I can smell like this forever. So actually can no one buy this so there is more for me? Thank you." —StikeGet it from Maude for $25.
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It can be poured on the skin once melted or you can just use it to make your room smell delightful.

Promising review: "I am obsessed with this candle. I love the smell so much that I have been lighting it just to rub the oil on my hands and neck for the day. I am planning on stocking up so I can smell like this forever. So actually can no one buy this so there is more for me? Thank you." —Stike

Get it from Maude for $25.

11. An electric wine-bottle opener, because nothing kills a romantic vibe like looking like a tool trying to get the cork out of a bottle of vino.

Promising review: "Bought this bad boy for work. The reviews were either great or people were upset about the battery. I've had it at work over a month now and opened thousands of bottles of wine with ease with it. I give this thing raving live reviews. I haven't had a cork break off or any cork in the bottles since I purchased it. If the motor had gone out after 100 bottles I'd have called it worth my money but its still working thousands later. It does seem to be going a little slower and the charger base is getting a tad finicky but I'll just order another happily when it does go out." —Julie MozingoGet it from Amazon for $19.99.
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Promising review: "Bought this bad boy for work. The reviews were either great or people were upset about the battery. I've had it at work over a month now and opened thousands of bottles of wine with ease with it. I give this thing raving live reviews. I haven't had a cork break off or any cork in the bottles since I purchased it. If the motor had gone out after 100 bottles I'd have called it worth my money but its still working thousands later. It does seem to be going a little slower and the charger base is getting a tad finicky but I'll just order another happily when it does go out." —Julie Mozingo

Get it from Amazon for $19.99.

12. And a truly magical red wine stain eliminator in case things get a little wild, so they won't have to worry about a pesky stain getting in the way feeling sexy.

Promising review: "I purchased this item and it said on the shelf for a few months without use. Then, last night, I spilled a whole glass of red wine on to my cream colored sheet and blanket. I followed the instructions: absorbing all the liquid with paper towels, then moistening the stains with water, then spraying liberally, then wiping off. After about two rounds of this, the stains almost completely disappeared. I'm very impressed, it was definitely worth the cost because I otherwise would have had to replace my sheet and blanket! It works wonders with fresh stains if you act quickly." —Mrs. RochesterGet it from Amazon or The Grommet for $7.95.
The Grommet

Promising review: "I purchased this item and it said on the shelf for a few months without use. Then, last night, I spilled a whole glass of red wine on to my cream colored sheet and blanket. I followed the instructions: absorbing all the liquid with paper towels, then moistening the stains with water, then spraying liberally, then wiping off. After about two rounds of this, the stains almost completely disappeared. I'm very impressed, it was definitely worth the cost because I otherwise would have had to replace my sheet and blanket! It works wonders with fresh stains if you act quickly." —Mrs. Rochester

Get it from Amazon or The Grommet for $7.95.

13. A splurge-worthy advent calendar full of quality sex toys and fun accessories for gettin' frisky with a partner and for some self-love.

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The "12 Sexy Days" set includes: a back and cleavage chain, suspender belt, self-adhesive mask, sensual feather tickler, satin blindfold, metallic chain whip necklace, pasties, metallic mesh cuffs, an adjustable black mesh collar with body chain, a tassel choker, with a 15” whip, a garter belt stray, and a gold diamond-shaped vibrator with one-button controls for three intensity and seven vibration modes.

Get it from Babeland for $195.

14. A pack of coffee shots, because getting out there and meeting people can be exhausting, and this'll give 'em a little buzz.

These things have been a lifesaver for me at the office when the 3 p.m. sleepies hit — they're delicious, come in several flavors (including plain black, for coffee purists), and each one is equivalent to the caffeine in one typical cup of coffee.Promising review: "Can’t give up caffeine. Trying to give up high-calorie coffee drinks. Perfect compromise. One or two of these in the morning @ 35 calories each and I have the caffeine of two to four cups of coffee and way fewer calories. Taste is good. I’ve seen these at little shops for $3-5 each and they were much cheaper on Amazon." —Elise LPGet a six-pack from Amazon for $11.35+ (available in six flavors).
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These things have been a lifesaver for me at the office when the 3 p.m. sleepies hit — they're delicious, come in several flavors (including plain black, for coffee purists), and each one is equivalent to the caffeine in one typical cup of coffee.

Promising review: "Can’t give up caffeine. Trying to give up high-calorie coffee drinks. Perfect compromise. One or two of these in the morning @ 35 calories each and I have the caffeine of two to four cups of coffee and way fewer calories. Taste is good. I’ve seen these at little shops for $3-5 each and they were much cheaper on Amazon." —Elise LP

Get a six-pack from Amazon for $11.35+ (available in six flavors).

15. The most adorable finger vibe ever created — it's easy to toss in your bag and take on the go — so they can feel the love solo (or with a partner) wherever they're headed.

Promising review: "I've been searching for a finger vibrator for a while and this one checked off all my boxes! Super easy to use, comfortable, and extremely powerful! The noise level is a bit loud, especially on the highest setting, but that didn't bother me because I was too busy enjoying myself. Highly re-cum-end." —Alexandra E.Get it from Dame for $75 (available in jade and blue).
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Promising review: "I've been searching for a finger vibrator for a while and this one checked off all my boxes! Super easy to use, comfortable, and extremely powerful! The noise level is a bit loud, especially on the highest setting, but that didn't bother me because I was too busy enjoying myself. Highly re-cum-end." —Alexandra E.

Get it from Dame for $75 (available in jade and blue).

16. A top-rated antibacterial toy cleaner, because hygiene is just as important as climaxing, friends.

Get it from Amazon for $10.27.
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Get it from Amazon for $10.27.

17. A cute mirror sticker that'll give 'em boost of confidence as they're heading off to a promising date.

Grab one for yourself while you're at it!Get it from Amazon for $1.99.
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Grab one for yourself while you're at it!

Get it from Amazon for $1.99.

18. A set of luxurious-feeling and hypoallergenic super-soft microfiber bedsheets with deep pockets, because it's no fun gettin' it on in itchy sheets that are falling off of the mattress.

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Each set includes a flat sheet, fitted sheet, and either one (twin and twin XL sizes) or two (all other sizes) pillowcases.

Promising review: "We recently bought a split king adjustable bed. The sheet we bought were constantly coming off. We bought these in hopes of keeping them on. They are awesome. They haven't even budged a little bit. They are unbelievably soft too. We will be buying another set!" —Linda Habrukovich

Get it from Amazon for $25.99+ (available in sizes twin, twin XL, full, full XL, queen, short queen, king, California king, split king, and flex-top king and in 44 colors).

19. Come As You Are, a super-informative, New York Times best-selling book that explores the science behind female sexuality that just might give them a new outlook on their sex life.

Promising review: "This book is gentle and supportive, and aimed at women who are dealing with emotional blockers in intimate/sexual relationships, and at their partners. (If you are confident and happy in your sexuality and looking for 'new ideas.' or dealing with complex medical issues, then you can probably skip this book.) Nagoski encourages a kind, mindful, nonjudgmental approach to exploring sex. Her writing is repetitive, but I feel that the repetition serves a purpose: She is targeting women who feel beaten down or lost, who need to hear over and over again that they are ok, they are not 'broken,' and they deserve to be happy and feel good. Nagoski introduces topics that range from casually interesting to extremely vital to the health/safety of our society (e.g., arousal non-concordance)." —Sasha S.Get it from Amazon for $11.55+, Barnes & Noble for $14.39+, or a local bookseller through Indiebound here.
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Promising review: "This book is gentle and supportive, and aimed at women who are dealing with emotional blockers in intimate/sexual relationships, and at their partners. (If you are confident and happy in your sexuality and looking for 'new ideas.' or dealing with complex medical issues, then you can probably skip this book.) Nagoski encourages a kind, mindful, nonjudgmental approach to exploring sex. Her writing is repetitive, but I feel that the repetition serves a purpose: She is targeting women who feel beaten down or lost, who need to hear over and over again that they are ok, they are not 'broken,' and they deserve to be happy and feel good. Nagoski introduces topics that range from casually interesting to extremely vital to the health/safety of our society (e.g., arousal non-concordance)." —Sasha S.

Get it from Amazon for $11.55+, Barnes & Noble for $14.39+, or a local bookseller through Indiebound here.

20. A gorgeous box of Godiva chocolates, because chocolate is an aphrodisiac but also everyone in the world would be thrilled to receive a box of delicious-as-hell chocolates.

Promising review: "Each piece in this box isn't just a chocolate treat. It's a beautiful adventure. The tastes and textures of each piece are different and bathe your palate in a wonderful blend of tastes that are nothing short of incredible." —Gork5000Get it from Amazon for $16+ (available in 8-, 19-, and 36-piece boxes).
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Promising review: "Each piece in this box isn't just a chocolate treat. It's a beautiful adventure. The tastes and textures of each piece are different and bathe your palate in a wonderful blend of tastes that are nothing short of incredible." —Gork5000

Get it from Amazon for $16+ (available in 8-, 19-, and 36-piece boxes).

21. A pair of roll-up ballet flats with a handy pouch they can easily pop in their bag — so any commutes home after a ~night of passion~ can be as comfy as can be.

Promising review: "Great in a pinch! Keep them in your bag, and you're good to go for when your feet ache. Just remember, these are for short distances or the better of two evils. Not a lot of support, but they fold up into your bag. What more can you ask for?" —Kindle KatGet it from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in sizes S-XL and in 15 colors).
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Promising review: "Great in a pinch! Keep them in your bag, and you're good to go for when your feet ache. Just remember, these are for short distances or the better of two evils. Not a lot of support, but they fold up into your bag. What more can you ask for?" —Kindle Kat

Get it from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in sizes S-XL and in 15 colors).

22. And a top-rated portable massager, because let's be honest: a particularly wild night between the sheets can mean a few aches and pains the next day for anyone who's been a little rusty lately.

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Promising review: "Buy this! I got this as a gift from my amazing girlfriend who knows I complain about my neck all the time. We took a chance on this after I saw it and said I wanted it, after reading some other reviews I definitely agree that this is amazing. I was a little hesitant at first but once it arrived I wasn't disappointed at all. It does take some time getting use to as with anything, but it's very quick to learn your sweet spots and how to set it up in your car. It requires a connection to your 12v outlet to be powered but other than that it's good. It is extremely durable; I'm highly surprised at the build quality and the quality of the rollers, heating, and motors. I'd definitely recommend this if you have any neck pain or just want a relaxing message after work on the ride home." —Brendan S.

Get it from Amazon for $44.95.

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