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    Updated on Nov 28, 2018. Posted on Sep 28, 2018

    21 Of The Best Kinky Sex Toys You Can Get Online

    "🎵Sticks and stones may break my bones / But chains and whips excite me 🎵" —Rihanna, and maybe you

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    1. An entire bondage starter kit for the couple who want to take the plunge into the world of kink but aren't sure just where to begin.

    lovehoney.com

    The kit comes with a blindfold, small ball gag, soft flogger, and adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs.

    Promising review: "We played with rope a lot and used makeshift blindfolds but decided to invest in something proper and it was definitely worth it! The cuffs and blindfold are soft and comfortable, the gag isn't too much of a mouthful, and the whip is ideal for light spanking. Couple this kit with some cheap rope, which you can tie through the links on the cuffs to expand your options, definitely worth it!" —TJones96

    Get it from Lovehoney for $44.99.

    2. Or a set of bondage goodies that the more experienced might enjoy.

    Adam & Eve

    The set includes a double-sided paddle, bondage rope, bullet vibrator, a vibrating penis ring, bondage tape, a butt plug, and a blindfold.

    Promising review: "We didn't use everything in the kit but very pleased with the quality of the products." —Anonymous

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $69.95.

    3. A satin blindfold to heighten your experiences (and also double as a comfy sleep mask if you're in the market for one).

    lovehoney.com

    Promising review: "Lovely blindfold! The satin feels very sexy and the soft material on the other side feels great against your skin. Sits nicely, elastic isn’t too tight or too loose and does the job it’s meant to do. Blocks out all light and not being able to see really heightens all other senses. Great price, very pleased!" —JuicyyLucyy

    Get it from Lovehoney for $8.99.

    4. A pair of adjustable, lightweight wrist or ankle cuffs that can be used in any way you desire.

    lovehoney.com

    The cuffs adjust between 6.5–10" around and are connected by a long sliding strap that adjusts between 1–27".

    Promising review: "I've used these a few times now with my OH. The cuffs are padded for comfort and no marks were left even as I struggled a bit. These are lightweight. They have enough length to be tied to the headboard but also short enough to restrain wrist or ankles together or ankle to wrist." —Naughtybutnice40

    Get them from Lovehoney for $14.99.

    5. Or a professional-grade pair if you've moved beyond the beginner stage.

    amazon.com

    Promising review: "Very heavy, very durable. Has a way to double lock as well. Great for kink since that's probably what you're buying them for! (Most likely...) Just don't lose the keys 😂" —Kat

    Get them from Amazon for $14.99.

    6. A spreader bar for easy (consensual, of course!) access during your steamy bondage sessions.

    Adam & Eve

    The bar is 1.75" wide by 24.5" long and is made from metal with faux leather Velcro-closure restraints.

    Promising review: "Found quite a few different positions that drove my wife crazy when we got this in. Some of the best sex we've had." —Anonymous

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $44.95.

    7. A customer-fave wand vibrator that packs a serious punch despite its compact size — use one of its 20 settings on your partner when they're, ahem, in a bind.

    amazon.com

    Promising review: "All I can say is WOW. I love this thing! I have a lot of sex toys, including a Hitachi — which I used right after this to compare. This Shibari is easily my new favorite toy of all time. It's super powerful but not in the way that can hurt a bit like the Hitachi. Absolutely mind-blowing and got the job done within a minute, literally. I think I discovered a new kind of orgasm. Definitely would buy again." —Amazon Customer

    Read a full review of the Shibari massager here.

    Get it from Amazon for $28.50 (available in black, pink, and purple).

    8. And a top-rated antibacterial toy cleaner to make sure that your fun is not only pleasurable but also hygienic AF.

    amazon.com

    The 8 oz. bottle is paraben-free and latex-, rubber- and silicone-friendly.

    Get it from Amazon for $10.27.

    9. An under-the-mattress restraint set that'll fit any size bed you're rockin' with.

    lovehoney.com

    Promising review: "Wasn't sure the wife would like bondage. How wrong I was — she loves it. These fit a super king-size bed, and as we have lats under the mattress I can position them to restrain her as she likes. Also they are super comfy on the wrists and ankles. She has such fab multiple orgasms, so glad I purchased them. :)" —Daz_207

    Get it from Lovehoney for $49.99.

    10. Hemp rope so you can make all of your BDSM fantasies come to life.

    Babeland

    The 30" rope features a 6mm weave with three-strand twist design and reinforced ends to prevent unraveling.

    Promising review: "Good, flexible hemp rope. It's less tough that most hemp ropes, which also means when it softens it really softens, so keep that in mind. What is already flexible will be especially so. With whatever treatment this rope receives it also smells less like your typical hemp rope which will be a plus or minus based on person. But solid rope that holds well." —Flint

    Get it from Babeland for $24.

    11. A 10-inch flogger perfect for beginners who want to get a handle on the whole pain-is-pleasure thing.

    lovehoney.com

    It features a plastic handle with wrist loop and soft rubber fronds.

    Promising review: "Don't be deterred by the size of this flogger, it definitely does the job. If it's used right you can get some powerful blows as well as using it delicately up and down the body. I would highly recommend this to anyone taking their first steps into the world of bondage." —CloudBee

    Get it from Lovehoney for $14.99.

    12. Or perhaps get ~wild~ with a fur-lined paddle, if that's more your style.

    Adam & Eve

    The product is 3" wide and 14.5" long, and comes with a convenient wrist cord.

    Promising review: "Bought this for my wife for Valentine's Day. She was soooo excited to see it and more delighted when I used it on her. She loved when I rubbed the soft fuzzy side on her and caught by surprised when I would sting her with the leather side. Would recommend this to anyone." —Anonymous

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $32.95.

    13. A waterproof vibrating cock ring to tease your partner with that'll give a whole new meaning to putting a ring on it.

    amazon.com

    Promising review: "I've purchased several cock rings in the past, from the conventional to the dual vibrating kind, with mixed reviews from my wife. They all helped me stay hard and last longer, but I wanted my lady to be screaming with pleasure, so this ring is perfect! It has many speeds so you can pick and choose what works best, and the shape is amazing. Its angular shape covers the entire clitoral area and stays in constant contact. Other rings I've used had some contact with my wife’s clit but nothing like this one. Within five minutes of me thrusting she was already coming. I use it every time we have sex for this reason. The last time we made love, she orgasmed four times within a half hour. The other magical part is that you can use in it in the shower and the tub. It can also be turned around for doggy style, or she can use it by itself as a vibrator. Overall, it’s a hit and I highly recommend it" —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $18.99 (available in black and blue).

    14. A feather tickler to add some fun new sensations to your experience.

    Adam & Eve

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $12.99.

    15. A silicone ball gag that's comfortable and easy to work with.

    lovehoney.com

    The faux-leather strap features seven holes for adjustment between 17.5–22.5", and the silicone ball is hypoallergenic, odorless and tasteless.

    Promising review: "As someone who has never used a ball gag before, this was perfect! Amazing material that's soft on the teeth and comfortable around the head. Easy to put on and take off. Definitely gave me a love for ball gags and one of our favorite toys, especially if silence is needed! Would 100% recommend." —PremixedCookie

    Get it from Lovehoney for $19.99.

    16. Nipple clamps, because they want in on the fun too.

    Adam & Eve

    Promising review: "I liked this the best out of all the nipple toys I have gotten. I like that it's easy to adjust the tension on this and it doesn't slip off when you tug on it like most of the rest of them. I really recommend this vs the others out there. If your nipple is a bit bigger than most (like mine) just pull it through and tighten away....enjoy!. I have been :)" —Krissy

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $19.99.

    17. A four-way cuff set that may require you to show some ~restraint~ because you'll probably want to use them all the time.

    Adam & Ee

    The set comes with four separate cuffs with metal clips that can fasten around your wrists or ankles and one central connector.

    Promising review: "When I got this, I was surprised that the quality overall was good. The cuffs are comfortable, a little thicker than some other cuffs — so the quality was better there too. I was also surprised that the center was actually a pretty-heavy duty ring (I expected that it was going to be light-weight and easily breakable - which it is not). The cuffs are big enough, and can be easily adjusted to fit the wrist or ankles. The Velcro on the cuffs seem to hold good (of course it still new and clean Velcro). The Velcro is long, which adds to its holding grip. The rings and clips make it where it can be modified to a shorter restraint or longer. Bottom line: It was comfortable, also stronger than I expected and I would buy it again." —Anonymous

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $36.95.

    18. A collar and leash to take your role-playing adventures to the next level.

    Adam & Eve

    The padded collar has lace details and is Velcro adjustable to fit most; features a

    30” metal chain.

    Promising review: "It's a good beginner set — the chain is strong and the collar is comfortable."

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $19.95.

    19. The Master Series anal plugs by Doc Johnson, available in several sizes and shapes so you can find the perfect one to incorporate into your kink sesh.

    amazon.com

    The products are all made with

    Promising review: "What an amazing sensation this plug brings. I was a little conflicted about which one to get, the Master Tool or the Trainer, but in the end I decided on the Master Tool. Holy cow, this really opens you up. It took some warming up to get to the point where I could use this, but it was well worth it. Overall, it's good toy for intermediates." —soccerchamp2010

    Get them from Amazon for $12.47+ each (available in seven styles).

    20. A pair of underwear with a special area to hold a remote-controlled vibrator for a *stimulating* experience in public that only you and your partner need to know about.

    Adam & Eve

    It's got five settings, and vibrations range to up to 20 feet away; plus it even syncs to music?!

    Promising review: "I was nervous ordering this with other reviews stating that it is loud. I found that it was no louder than a cell phone on the highest vibrating function. It works great to get things started, but found myself pushing it up against me most of the night. The panties are a little big, but was able to do a little repair to help them fit better. One night of clubbing, or whatever is on the list, and you will be washing them for sure. Kept me wet all night. One of the biggest sellers for me was that it is rechargeable! On the highest setting it will last about two to three hours max." —ying and yang

    Get them from Adam & Eve for $89.95.

    21. Or a Novel-Erotics subscription to treat yourself (and/or your partner) to a surprise box of goodies every two or three months!

    Cratejoy / Novel Erotics

    Each delivery comes in discreet packaging designed like a book and includes at least five body-safe and kinky sex toys that complement the erotic story they're housed in.

    Promising review: "The box is a real box that looks like a book. Inside the cover was a fun story — my partner and I used the ideas to role-play a little. There was a small vibrator that you can use in the water, a jelly plug, and a massage candle that you light to warm the oil. There is also bondage tape, but we had to save that for another night. Overall, good value for the products inside." —Anne

    Get it from Cratejoy for $37.50 for a quarterly subscription or $45 for a bimonthly subscription.

    Some reviews have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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