Taylor Swift Gave A Fan Breakup Advice And A “Moving On” Playlist

And it might just be the best advice and playlist you’ve ever seen.

1. If there’s anyone we love for being open about their breakups, it’s Taylor Swift. And now she’s decided to pass on a few lovely words of advice to a fan who’s dealing with heartbreak.

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2. After her boyfriend dumped her by text, Kasey Andrew posted this comment to Taylor on Tumblr, asking for her advice.

3. And shortly afterwards, Taylor responded asking Kasey what had happened. BuzzFeed spoke to Kasey who told us that she hadn’t imagined Taylor would even see the comment let alone respond.

She told us her boyfriend had broken up with her over text after a year and a half of friendship and a five month relationship: “I never saw it coming. He just texted me he was done. I was in love with him and I never thought he would leave. I felt like my future had crumbled apart. When I first saw she replied I was honestly in shock. I had only posted a couple of things and I couldn’t believe she saw my post about him breaking up with me. I couldn’t believe somebody like Taylor Swift was taking the time to comfort me, to give me boy advice.”

4. After Kasey explained the situation, Taylor told her she sympathised, and then encouraged her to cut contact and block her ex-boyfriend.

5. Taylor then gave perhaps the best breakup advice that’s ever been imparted, telling Kasey, “You fell in love, no games. Now you’re saying goodbye with no games.”

Kasey told us that Taylor’s advice changed her way of thinking. She said: “Her advice taught me it’s OK to block him and ignore him because he hurt me. That there is nothing wrong with me being upset, but love shouldn’t be a game. He was treating it like a game.”

6. But that wasn’t all Taylor offered. She then messaged Kasey with a breakup playlist to help her try to move on.

And this playlist really has helped Kasey. She told us: “I have been listening to it on repeat all day. Anytime I start to feel alone or sad about the breakup, I have her advice saved in my phonebook and I look at it. And in my head, go Taylor Swift cares about me so I’m going to stay strong.”

Kasey continued: “She’s simply amazing. When she gives advice it’s not just for one of us but it’s for the other thousand she knows is going through a break up and hurting. I count myself lucky to have a Taylor Swift in my life and I hope everybody has one as well.”

7. You’re the best, Taylor.

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Ellie Woodward is a senior celebrity reporter for BuzzFeed and is based in London.
 
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