1. He or she makes you doubt your grip on reality
2. He or she blames you for not being trusting.
3. He or she calls you nosy.

Hey, we all have our suspicions from time to time. Jane Isay, author of Secrets and Lies gives you the top tips to see if someones keeping a dirty little (or big) secret from you.
“What are you, crazy?”
“How could you ask such a question?”
“Listen to the Lady Detective.”
"Nothing wrong was done by me."
“That diamond earring in my suitcase? The maid in the hotel must have lost hers.”
He criticizes your cooking, your looks, and your childrearing, in order to keep the spotlight away from him.
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