You know - when these things happen we need to EDUCATE. Some are just cruel, of course. But most people don’t MEAN to hurt someone’s feelings, the are awkward or just don’t know. The more we reach out and educate on the spot, the less this will happen. The same kinds of things happen in all facets of life. I am not religious at all and people are always trying to comfort me with ‘Just ask God, he’ll give you the answer.’ It’s also no different than a woman who is overweight begin told ‘You have a pretty face.’ The more we make people understand, the more inclusion there will be in the world.