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Poll: Tell Me Honestly Whether Or Not You Think These Ultimatums Are Toxic For A Relationship

Poll: Are These Relationship Ultimatums Toxic?

Poll: I’m Really Curious If You Think These Relationship Ultimatums Are Toxic Or Not

Is it toxic for someone to say they'll leave their partner if there isn't a label on the relationship within three months of dating?

Two women take a selfie together on the beach

Is it toxic for someone to make their S.O. choose between them and a friend of theirs they can't stand?

A woman gets upset with her partner over something he's doing on his phone

How about if someone says they'll leave their partner if they continue a close friendship with an ex?

A man proposes to his partner on the beach

Is it toxic for someone to tell their S.O. they'll leave the relationship if they aren't engaged within two years of dating?

A couple gives piggyback rides to their children

Is it toxic for someone to threaten to divorce their spouse if they don't have children within a certain amount of time?

A woman paints as the sun sets in the distance

Someone is pursuing their dream career, but right now it’s an unstable source of income. Is it toxic for their S.O. to issue a time frame of how long they can pursue it before they settle for a more stable job?

A frustrated couple argues with each other in their home

Someone's S.O. has family members who are constantly negative and belittling toward them. Is it toxic for them to tell their S.O. they can only be together if they stop hanging out with family?

One person in a relationship is very religious, while the other isn't at all. Is it toxic for the religious partner to say they can only continue to date if their S.O. takes an interest in their beliefs?

Someone lands a job they've always wanted, but it requires they move to a different area. Is it toxic for their S.O., who is unwilling to relocate, to make them choose between moving and staying with them?

A mom talks with her daughter and holds her hands

Two partners have very different approaches to parenting their children. One is strict, while the other rarely disciplines the kids. Is it toxic for one partner to say they will only continue the relationship if their S.O. alters their parenting style?

Is it toxic for someone to say they'll leave the relationship if their partner doesn't stop smoking cigarettes?

One partner has numerous pets, while the other isn't an animal lover. Is it toxic for the latter partner to ask their S.O. to choose between them and their pets?

A couple takes a selfie as they unpack boxes together

Is it toxic for someone to say they'll leave the relationship if they and their S.O. aren't living together after one year of dating?

One partner wants to pursue a polyamorous relationship, while the other doesn't. Is it toxic for the latter to make their S.O. choose between them and polyamory?

A man checks out another girl while with his girlfriend

One partner in a relationship is constantly flirty with the people they meet. Is it toxic for their S.O. to say they'll leave the relationship if this doesn't stop?

A man checks out what his girlfriend is looking at on her phone

One partner often posts racy photos of themself on social media. Is it toxic for their partner to say they'll leave the relationship if this doesn't stop?

A man and a woman in a relationship yell at each other

What about if one partner likes to wear revealing clothing, and their S.O. says they'll leave if they don't start to dress more conservatively?

A group of people celebrate on the dance floor as confetti falls down on them

Lastly, one partner in a relationship parties often, while their S.O. is over it. Is it toxic to say they'll leave the relationship if the partying continues?

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Poll: Tell Me Honestly Whether Or Not You Think These Ultimatums Are Toxic For A Relationship

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