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    Posted on Mar 20, 2018

    30 Sex Tips That Absolutely Everyone Should Know About

    On giving head and boning well.

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    BuzzFeed Brazil asked readers on Facebook for the best sex tips that we should all know — here's what they said.

    Responses have been edited for length and clarity.

    First, re: cunnilingus:

    1. Remember: The clitoris is sensitive...and not just to pleasure.

    2. Cool it with the stiff tongues!

    3. Also, it's not taffy!

    4. Stop acting like a dog.

    5. The vagina is part of a whole person.

    6. She's fidgeting for a reason.

    7. If she's not saying much, everything is probably good.

    8. "Like that" means "exactly like that," not "faster."

    9. Know when to admit defeat.

    10. Ladies, stop faking it!

    11. And, for the love of god, just listen to your partner!

    On fellatio:

    12. Find the road to happiness.

    13. Put on a show.

    14. Know about the male "G-spot."

    15. Get generous with that tongue action.

    16. And be careful with the balls!

    17. Just as importantly: Enjoy yourself.

    18. And go slow.

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    "If the guy's not circumcised, he's probably going to be a little (or a LOT) sensitive around the tip of his penis. Pulling back his foreskin and going to town may not be the best idea. It's best to take it slow and avoid turning the pleasure into torture." —Anonymous

    And on sex in general:

    19. Say what you need to say.

    20. Don't be ashamed of your body or your hair.

    21. One good lay is better than a lot of average ones.

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    "Quality is way better than quantity!!!!" —Tahis Gonzalez

    22. Find the position that REALLY works for you.

    23. Never forget: You need to feel pleasure too.

    24. Knowing your own body makes all the difference.

    25. Don't be grossed out by oral sex.

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    "Don't be grossed out by oral sex. Sure, it's good to get it, but it's also good to give it out." —Thairyne Andrade

    26. Sex isn't just penetration.

    27. Don't tell someone they're bad in bed.

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    "Just because you didn't have great sex with someone once doesn't mean that they're bad in bed. They just didn't have sex in a way that worked for you." —Carolina Napoleão Valverde

    28. Don't force it if you're not in the mood.

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    "There's no point in forcing it. Sometimes your partner will be beautiful and sexy, but if you're not in the mood, it's just not going to work. Save it for another time (or another partner)." —Anonymous

    29. USE PROTECTION!

    30. And finally, always remember: You don't owe anyone else a satisfying sex life.

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    "As a woman, I would have liked to have known about sexual freedom sooner. About sleeping with whoever I want and as many times as I want, and without the taboo of 'he has to be my boyfriend.' That attitude kept me from having so many incredible experiences! I wish someone would have told me I don't owe a satisfying sex life to anyone." —Anonymous

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    This post has been translated from Portuguese and adapted from the following posts:

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