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It’s almost that time of the year where the weather gets colder and hearts get warmer. This is the time where cuddling up with bae watching Netflix becomes more attractive than the wild party scene. That attractive girl that rarely ever texts back will be on your line and the guy that you’ve been trying to get to settle down may finally hear you out. This phenomenon is known as “Cuffing Season”. Cuffing season is defined in the urban dictionary as, “During the fall and winter months people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves along with the rest of the world desiring to be “cuffed” or tied down by a serious relationship. The cold weather and prolonged indoor activity causes singles to become lonely and desperate to be cuffed.” During this time your homeboys won’t be around as often for your heated 2K sessions and ladies, your twerking buddy may not be willing to go out and hit the clubs on the weekend. Cuffing season is going to come and go fast so you need to be prepared if you want to get chose. Here are a few tips:

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You’d be surprised how many outgoing people are just too shy to speak to their crush. Be the instigator. A simple hello doesn’t take much and there’s no telling where that can lead.

Don’t Be Cheesy

Leave the pick up lines at home. People like originality, and the most original thing you can do is be yourself because there’s no one else like you.

No One (Reaaaaally) Likes A Clingy Person

One of the main reasons people are afraid to get into relationships is because they don’t want to feel tied down. Don’t suffocate your significant other especially if you’re just in a “situationship”.

Be Available and Accessible

No one is to busy. We all make time for what we want to make time for. If you are rarely available, no one will want you because it will make him or her feel unimportant.

Remove the Word Thirsty From Your Vocab

Would you rather someone be straight up about their feelings towards you, or play games and keep you guessing? Exactly. If someone approaches you respectfully then they most likely find you attractive and want to get to know you. It doesn’t make them a thirsty guy that just wants to have sex.

Don’t Assume!

Ladies stop assuming every guy is promiscuous and has a lot of girls. There are very few guys that actually have it like that. And fellas need to stop assuming the same thing. A girl could have 300 unread texts and not give a damn about any of those guys.

Stop Worrying About Body Counts

That should never factor in your decision whether to talk to someone or not Sex is sex. Whether someone did it with one person twenty times or twenty different people, as long as they are clean it’s the same result.

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