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    I Became Celibate For A Year To Regain My Orgasm And It Worked

    Sometimes it's just as simple as knowing that every part of you trusts your partner.

    Sex can add a whole other layer of pressure to any relationship. It can also be a huge stressor for anyone on a date.

    Watch how Daysha navigates a year long journey of celibacy.

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    This is Daysha, and she challenged herself to go a full year without having sex.

    She remembered her first (and only) long-term relationship with Brandon.

    He made her feel absolutely beautiful!

    When it didn't work out with Brandon, Daysha felt she had to "sex" him out. That's where Jack came in (no pun intended).

    BUT...nada, zilch, zip. She didn't orgasm, felt confused and decided to chill the fuck out.

    It became clear that Daysha needed to be able to get close to someone first, and be able to let them in both mentally and physically.

    After reading an interesting article about a guy who turned to celibacy, Daysha decided to give it a try.

    There was Alex, who swore he was totally cool with Daysha's celibacy plan.

    Then Daysha met Jay and it all came together. It reminded her of exactly why she did that whole thing to begin with.

    Okay, so Daysha was two weeks shy of her one-year anniversary of celibacy when she and Jay took their relationship to the next level.

    Daysha's goal was to learn how to put her pleasure first, while building up trust with someone she really vibed with.