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    Updated on May 20, 2019. Posted on May 17, 2019

    23 Music Videos That Were Responsible For Many Sexual Awakenings

    A LOT of sexual awakenings below.

    We recently asked members of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us which music videos brought on their sexual awakenings and why. Here are some of the memories they shared:

    1. "Buttons" by the Pussycat Dolls

    Interscope Records

    "I hadn't even realized I liked girls yet, but I watched that video so many times not really understanding why I was so into it."

    monikap6

    2. "Dirrty" by Christina Aguilera

    RCA Records

    "I would throw a blanket over the family desktop in the living room and watch Christina Aguilera’s 'Dirrty' music video on a loop. Definitely was not as inconspicuous as I thought and definitely got in trouble."

    rewg

    3. "This Love" by Maroon 5

    Concord Records

    "Adam Levine was SO hot in that video with all the strategic flower petals. My gay heart* exploded. (*pants)"

    travmcw

    4. "Stacy's Mom" by Fountains of Wayne

    Virgin Records

    "My five older brothers would crowd around the TV whenever the video came on and I was right there with them."

    okaykaylyn

    5. "Toxic" by Britney Spears

    Jive Records

    "The music video for 'Toxic' by Britney Spears is literally what made me realize that I'm into girls. I first watched it when I was 11, but didn't put the pieces together until I was 13 (lol oops)."

    liacchi

    6. "When Doves Cry" by Prince

    Warner Bros. Records

    "First, you get the scene with him in the bathtub, which makes you feel an odd kind of way. Then, those few moments where he is crawling across the bathroom floor...Uh, yeah, you're suddenly not at all certain what it is that you're feeling for the first time. But it's certainly new and interesting."

    brokentryst

    7. "Me Against The Music" by Britney Spears and Madonna

    Jive Records

    "Britney and Madonna and ties and moving around a metal bed frame and chasing and the tension woke me."

    michellek4be4335c2

    8. "Slide" by the Goo Goo Dolls

    Warner Bros. Records

    "John Rzeznik in that tank top with his hair and his tattoos and the metal ball necklace that everyone wore in the '90s. It was and still is perfection."

    jessietippetts

    9. "She Wolf" by Shakira

    Epic Records

    "That bodysuit and her in the cage made me feel some type of way."

    psychoplatypus13

    10. "If" by Janet Jackson

    Virgin Records

    "The way she danced with those men...Wow!"

    lisas49580e36b

    11. "Tearin' Up My Heart" by NSYNC

    RCA Records

    "Justin Timberlake of NSYNC in a white tank, on a bed, fully 'Tearin’ Up My Heart.' Thank you, JT."

    brittanyf44f707b7f

    12. "Crazy" by Aerosmith

    Geffen Records

    "Liv Tyler and Alicia Silverstone in schoolgirl outfits – then doing stripteases – did it."

    mikew419319685

    13. "Can’t Remember To Forget You" by Shakira and Rihanna

    RCA Records

    "It opened my eyes to the fact that I might not be straight. The scene where they lie over the black and white stripes literally magnified me."

    ilovethewordhello

    14. "Wicked Games" by Chris Isaac

    Erik Jacobsen

    "I remember watching that video and feeling *things.*"

    sarahl4cee0cb82

    15. "All the things she said" by t.A.T.u.

    Interscope Records

    "This sparked not only my sexuality but also my gay."

    i411984c5e

    16. "Quit Playing Games With My Heart" by The Backstreet Boys

    Jive Records

    "Something about that part where they dance in the rain."

    boys3allc

    17. "I Miss You" by blink-182

    Geffen Records

    "There are like five seconds in 'I Miss You' by blink-182 where these spooky ladies make out and get lipstick all over each other's faces. MTV would play an edited version in the day time and that part was never there! So I'd stay up to watch those five seconds and fantasize about kissing other girls."

    anikawarner

    18. "Baby Boy" by Beyoncé ft. Sean Paul

    Columbia Records

    "The scene in the music video for 'Baby Boy' by Beyoncé ft. Sean Paul where Beyonce is dancing with the male lead. High school dancing-with-your-crush goals lol."

    kahlyiles

    19. "Hero" by Enrique Iglesias

    Interscope Records

    "Hot and sweaty in the desert heat? Definitely did something to me and made me realize I was in no way attracted to girls."

    brandonm49aeb8f8b

    20. "Untitled" by D'Angelo

    Virgin Records

    "Ten-year-old gay me was fucking shook."

    rigop2

    21. "Without Me" by Eminem

    Shady Records

    "There's this one part where he's dressed as Robin and the camera zooms right in on that bulge."

    j48f02f27b

    22. "Milkshake" by Kelis

    Star Trak Entertainment

    "The video for 'Milkshake' by Kelis made me realize that I love boobs."

    taylorrosee

    23. "Promiscuous" by Nelly Furtado ft. Timbaland

    Interscope Records

    "I grew up in a very religious household and this was the first 'mainstream' music video I remember watching. Seeing her dance in a crop top and low jeans made me FEEL THINGS for the first time in my life!"

    jonathans4be5c83d1

    Some submissions have been edited for length and clarity.