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    Listen: This TikTok Bride Sent Her Bridesmaids A Two-Page List Of Expectations--Why It's The Best Idea Ever

    “I don’t think everyone’s going to agree with how Lisa went about it, but I think the intention was there, and the intention was good.”

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    On today's episode:

    1. As you may have seen on TikTok by now, Lisa Torres, an auditor from San Antonio, recently went mega-viral for sharing the two-page letter she sent to her bridesmaids. And it has us asking so many questions.

    We weren’t exactly alone. The video led to plenty of opinions from commenters about how she chose to go about things. Buzzfeed’s Shelby Heinrich wrote all about it in the aptly titled piece “This Bride-To-Be Went Viral For Sharing The Two-Page Letter She Sent To Her Bridesmaids, And People Have Opinions” and joins us to break it down.


    #stitch with @stephanieberman7 I was scared to have a #transparency letter in the #bridesmaidproposalbox but it WORKED OUT. #wedding #weddingtiktok

    ♬ original sound - Lisa 💙

    2. Rachel Lindsay has published her thoughts on the Bachelor franchise.

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    3. Demi Lovato spoke about how their family is adjusting to using their they/them pronouns.

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