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    Just 20 Things From Lovehoney That Are Super Approachable (Yet Satisfying) For Beginners

    If you're curious about sex toys, but also kinda nervous, give one of these a try.

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    1. A rechargeable mini-massage wand because bigger is not always better. Unlike a bulky full-size wand, this little gem has a bendy neck and can really reach those hard-to-pinpoint feel-good spots.

    The metallic purple-pink ombre wand with flexible neck being bent down on surface

    2. A battery-powered magic bullet vibrator for those who love something small but mighty. It might look discreet, but you'll have a hard time keeping things on the DL as you play around with the three vibration speeds and seven patterns. 😅

    Someone holding the shiny vibe in silver

    3. An extra-powerful cordless magic wand that'll let you indulge in super-strong vibrations (with eight settings to choose from) wherever it feels good on your body.

    The magic wand vibrator

    4. A lil' petite butt plug because it's truly only the size of a pinky finger, making it the perfect, non-intimidating toy to start exploring anal play — especially if you're feeling intrigued but nervous or slightly scared about using too big of a toy to explore.

    The black butt plug held in someone's palm

    5. A rechargeable clitoral stimulator that will create mind-blowing, oral-sex-mimicking pulsing sensations with literally the touch of a button (and maybe a few more touches, as you explore the six levels of intensity). Talk about user-friendly!

    The pink stimulator resting in someone's palm, showing the silicon-tipped suction area and control panel, with power button and - and + controls for speed

    6. Or, this similar suction toy if you want the same pleasure-inducing air technology at a much cheaper price tag. The trade-off? This one's not fully waterproof, and it runs on batteries instead of USB charging, but it's still got six powerful vibration settings that will leave you breathless and quivering.

    The purple suction toy with duck design on handle

    7. A six-piece couples' sex toy kit that's filled with all sorts of fun new playthings for you both to experiment with together. It comes with a mini-wand, G-spot vibe, bullet, cock ring, butt plug, and stroker.

    The six-piece sex toy kit

    8. A powerful 10-setting rabbit vibe to stimulate your G-spot and clit simultaneously, helping you achieve the all-mighty queen-of-orgasms, the *blended O.*

    The purple rabbit vibe held in someone's hand

    9. A vibrating blow-job stroker because the extra sensation will absolutely ~blow~ their mind (pun intended), whether they're alone or have a partner working their shaft.

    The clear vibrating stroker held in someone's palm

    10. A sleek G-spot vibrator because this slender, curved beauty will perfectly target that special spot and have you riding waves of pleasure. Fair warning, though — the three speeds and four vibration patterns are pretty powerful, but not the quietest.

    The black G-spot s-shaped vibrator

    11. A four-piece beginners' bondage kit so you can venture into the world of tying and teasing with some fun and playful basics: a silky blindfold, fluffy feather tickler, and two silk ties.

    The kit contents containing mask, feather tickler, and two restraints

    12. A silicone finger vibrator since it'll add extra sensation and pleasure without requiring you (or your partner) to change up your technique — just slip it on and let the buzz bring you to new levels of bliss!

    the pink vibrator on an index finger

    13. A beginner's strap-on set with a 5-inch dildo attachment and harness with space for a bullet vibe, so you can start pleasuring your partner with a bit of penetration without stressing about picking out multiple components. When you're ready to try different dildos, use the harness's three interchangeable O-rings.

    The black harness with pegging dildo

    14. A rose-shaped clitoral stimulator because you deserve a romantic gesture of self-love — and what better way than to give yourself this beautiful red bud and indulge in the 10 suction modes. If you're hesitant about the look of sex toys, this might be the perfect one to start with!

    The rose-shaped stimulator

    15. A set of three silicone cock rings that can help ensure the erection is both bigger and lasts longer. Experiment with the different sizes individually or together and see what kind of new sensations you can unlock!

    16. A set of color-changing silicone nipple suckers that will give you plenty of playful sensation up on top, while leaving your hands (or your partner's) free to focus on ~other things~ down below.

    The purple and pink silicone nipple suckers with spherical shape

    17. A Fleshlight Flight textured masturbator that will tease you (or your partner) with stimulating bumps inside the real-feel sleeve. Even the sex toy skeptics say they've been converted by this thing!

    model holding the fleshlight

    18. A double-ended rechargeable strapless strap-on vibrating dildo, which sounds a lot more complicated than it actually is (I promise). It's flexible and easy to maneuver into a mutually-comfortable position...and once you do, you're both in for a WILD ride of pleasure, with eight vibration patterns, 12 speeds, and pliable rabbit ears to get you both going.

    The purple sex toy showing one dildo end in a stop-motion vibrating motion

    19. An adorable waterproof pebble vibrator because it has a cute and sophisticated aesthetic, but more importantly, delivers some pretty powerful sensations on your lil' love button. Definitely a must if you're an external pleasure person.

    Someone holding the pink pebble vibrator

    20. A mini G-spot vibrator designed to hit that ultimate sweet spot. It might not look intimidating, but it'll have you weak in the knees in mere minutes.

    the black vibrator with silver silk Fifty Shades of Grey travel pouch

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