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    Stepparents' Survival Guide

    We will give the key tools to creating a better relationship with your stepchild! Just follow these 5 easy steps, and you should see an improvement in your family's well-being!

    Step 1: Don't wear your bossy pants

    Step 2: Remember, they're only kids

    Step 3: Don't put your kids in the middle!

    Step 4: Love their Mamas / Papas

    Step 5: Plant seeds and give them time