I can be aloof ... "I'm a PRICKLY PEAR!" ... but that is because I feel the need to protect myself from the evils of the world. I am quiet and shy until I get to know you, but I can laugh at just about anything and I do.
Usually I am laughing at myself. I believe that if you can't laugh at yourself, you don't have the right to laugh at others.
And I reserve the right to laugh at others. Yes.