We bring you, with one raised eyebrow, some examples of ex-couples who are taking the higher ground and "maintaining friendships." We could all learn something from their maturity and grace, especially Pamela and Tommy's.
Editorial note: Whoa! You've found a super-old post here on BuzzFeed, from an earlier era of the site. It doesn't really represent where we are anymore, and may in fact be totally broken, but we're leaving it up as a part of our early history.