11 Tips To Help You Prepare For A Video Call Date

Curate your space to say something about you.

Considering trying out virtual dating RN? We got you. Here are some tips to turn you into a video dating pro — instantly.

1. Firstly, always think about your lighting. While your bathroom might make your eyes pop, the kitchen or your bedroom are probably more appropriate location-wise.

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There is no sexy way to chat to someone new when they can see a toilet behind you. The kitchen tends to be the second most well-lit room in the house, while your bedroom will allow you a bit more ~privacy~.

2. Give your surroundings a little spring clean.

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Dirty dishes — sashay away.

3. Curate your space a little bit.

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Try to make the space say something about you — if you're super into anime, sit in front of a poster you have on your wall, if you're a plant parent, get your kids involved!

4. If you live with other people, let them know you'll be otherwise occupied...

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Because your first date is definitely not a time to meet the parents or your flatmates.

5. Always wear trousers.

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You never know when your laptop might slip and show off that you're wearing joggers with a nice top.

6. Don't just press the "call" button.

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No one ever likes a surprise phone call, let alone a video call. Organise a time, even if its just a two-minute warning so that you can both do essential preparations.

7. Find a game to play together to help to break the ice...

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A good old game of charades should do the trick.

8. ...And if all else fails, prepare some topics of conversation that can help you fill any awkward silent moments.

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Topics more interesting than the weather include:

- Your travel bucket list

- The best meal you've ever had

- And why you believe that cats are actually better than dogs

9. You could even simulate a dinner date, by sitting down to eat together at the same time.

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Unexpected bonus: no awkward conversation about how to split the bill.

10. Or enjoy a cocktail hour together where you teach each other how to make your favourite drink.

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"My favourite drink is simple to prepare. You just uncork the bottle and then pour it into a wineglass."

11. Finally, think of a way to end the call because "I've just got to run" isn't going to work RN.

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You can always schedule a specific time for your video call so you are both aware of when it should end. That way you can use the time as a natural point to start saying your goodbyes.

If you want to find someone special you can still do it! Just from your home. Enter video dating on your Bumble app. Take the leap and ask your match if they’d be up for a virtual happy hour, a dinner date, or even a movie night! Keep dating and making connections — the ball is still in your court!

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