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Everything You Need To Know About The "Distracted Boyfriend" Meme

There's more to it than you think.

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If you've been online the last few days, you've probably seen this photo.

Antonio Guillem / Shutterstock

It's a stock photo from Shutterstock and it was taken by a dude named Antonio Guillem. His website is here and it's also full of stock photos.

This particular photo started going viral in February — but not in the way you probably know it. According to meme chroniclers Know Your Meme, the first use of it was on an Instagram page where followers were asked to "tag that friend who falls in love every month." Almost 30,000 people liked the photo on Instagram.

Instagram / Via instagram.com

After its short pop of virality, the photo wasn't really seen for almost six months — until it was tweeted with captions on each person. Then it became the meme you probably already know and love: "Distracted Boyfriend."

Some people have taken to calling the meme "Man Looking at Other Woman," but for the sake of spending less time on words, lets just use Distracted Boyfriend.

This is one of the first tweets that really brought it to a wider audience.

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For the next few August days, the Distracted Boyfriend meme reigned supreme on Twitter. Some of the posts were retweeted over 100,000 times.

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It made its way to Tumblr, too.

Tumblr / Via trustmeidontknowwhatimdoing.tumblr.com

Eventually, people started changing the meme — incorporating old memes like "grabbing a cold one with the boys"...

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And then things got meta.

Eventually, someone figured out that the original photo was part of a set, and that the Distracted Boyfriend was a wayyyyyy bigger dickhead than anyone had first realized. Turns out the dude has been distracted on more than one occasion (like when he proposed to his girlfriend?????).

STOP I DIDN'T KNOW THERE WERE MULTIPLE PICS FJDJDDJDJD GIRL WYD DROP HIS CRUSTY ASS

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Photographer Antonio Guillem didn't immediately respond to a request for comment on his viral pictures.

For now, people are still making Distracted Boyfriend memes – so enjoy it before something new comes along. Also, if you're any of the models in this photoset, please, please, pleasseeee email me.

@mathewi Meme scientists from their hidden bunker have been experimenting with "Distracted Boyfriend" stock image,b… https://t.co/B8Z2YvCVdt

Brad Esposito is a news reporter for BuzzFeed and is based in Sydney, Australia.

Contact Brad Esposito at bradley.esposito@buzzfeed.com.

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