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15 Of The Hardest Relationship Questions That'll Really Make You Think

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  1. 1. You and your partner have been together for a couple of years when they forget your birthday. You wait all day for them to acknowledge it but by the next morning, they still haven't said a word. Would you end the relationship?

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1. You and your partner have been together for a couple of years when they forget your birthday. You wait all day for them to acknowledge it but by the next morning, they still haven't said a word. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 2. You and your partner haven't really been having much sex recently. When you sit down to talk about it, they say that they want to experiment, and ask if you'd be happy to open the relationship for a trial period. Would you end the relationship?

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2. You and your partner haven't really been having much sex recently. When you sit down to talk about it, they say that they want to experiment, and ask if you'd be happy to open the relationship for a trial period. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 3. On your wedding day, you find out that your partner had an affair. When you confront them about it, they swear that it's over and you believe them. The wedding is all paid for and your guests have started to arrive. Would you end the relationship?

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3. On your wedding day, you find out that your partner had an affair. When you confront them about it, they swear that it's over and you believe them. The wedding is all paid for and your guests have started to arrive. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 4. You've been with your partner for a little while when you find out they cheated in their last relationship. It wasn't that they were unhappy or that there were problems in the relationship, they just slipped up. Would you end the relationship?

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4. You've been with your partner for a little while when you find out they cheated in their last relationship. It wasn't that they were unhappy or that there were problems in the relationship, they just slipped up. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 5. You find out from somebody else that your partner has kissed another person. You thought you were both happy and there seems to be no reason for it. Would you end the relationship?

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5. You find out from somebody else that your partner has kissed another person. You thought you were both happy and there seems to be no reason for it. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 6. Your partner tells you that they had sex with somebody else. Their excuse is that they were extremely drunk, and they seem sincerely sorry about it. Would you end the relationship?

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6. Your partner tells you that they had sex with somebody else. Their excuse is that they were extremely drunk, and they seem sincerely sorry about it. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 7. You find out your partner has been messaging somebody else. The messages are flirty and you're not happy with them at all, but as far as you're aware, your partner hasn't met up with the person they're texting. Would you end the relationship?

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7. You find out your partner has been messaging somebody else. The messages are flirty and you're not happy with them at all, but as far as you're aware, your partner hasn't met up with the person they're texting. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 8. Your partner is very flirty, almost inappropriately so. You know it's their personality, and have no reason to think they're cheating on you, but their flirting makes you feel uncomfortable. Would you end the relationship?

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8. Your partner is very flirty, almost inappropriately so. You know it's their personality, and have no reason to think they're cheating on you, but their flirting makes you feel uncomfortable. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 9. Your sex life is bad. Not just mediocre, it's terrible. You just don't seem compatible in bed at all, no matter how many times you've tried. Would you end the relationship?

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9. Your sex life is bad. Not just mediocre, it's terrible. You just don't seem compatible in bed at all, no matter how many times you've tried. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 10. After dating for a couple of weeks, you make plans for your partner to meet your best friend. Afterwards, your friend pulls you to one side and explains that they don't like your partner at all. Would you end the relationship?

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10. After dating for a couple of weeks, you make plans for your partner to meet your best friend. Afterwards, your friend pulls you to one side and explains that they don't like your partner at all. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 11. Your partner talks about their ex a lot. They've assured you they're 100% over the relationship and would never get back with them, but the topic keeps coming up. Would you end the relationship?

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11. Your partner talks about their ex a lot. They've assured you they're 100% over the relationship and would never get back with them, but the topic keeps coming up. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 12. You and your partner sit down to have a serious conversation about where your relationship is going and you realise they don't want to ever get married. Would you end the relationship?

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12. You and your partner sit down to have a serious conversation about where your relationship is going and you realise they don't want to ever get married. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 13. Your partner always makes fun of you in front of people in an attempt to make everybody else laugh. You don't really think much of it to begin with, but it soon becomes a regular occurrence. Would you end the relationship?

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13. Your partner always makes fun of you in front of people in an attempt to make everybody else laugh. You don't really think much of it to begin with, but it soon becomes a regular occurrence. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 14. Your partner has zero drive and ambition. They have a job, but no desire to work towards a promotion or bettering themselves, and they just seem to be very lazy. Would you end the relationship?

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14. Your partner has zero drive and ambition. They have a job, but no desire to work towards a promotion or bettering themselves, and they just seem to be very lazy. Would you end the relationship?
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  1. 15. You and your partner have been watching a Netflix series together. You find out that they watched the season finale without you. Would you end the relationship?

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15. You and your partner have been watching a Netflix series together. You find out that they watched the season finale without you. Would you end the relationship?
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