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Ever wonder why your partner does not want anyone to know about your relationship? This very quick quiz could help you understand why! (And maybe help you move on!)

Why Is Your Relationship On The DL?

For the following questions after choosing your gender, please choose answers according to gender color. Pink for female, blue for male. It gives more accurate results!

How long have you been talking to him/her?

Does he/she talk about getting into a relationship?

Does he/she hang out with the opposite sex a lot?

Are they always making excuses not to hang out?

Do they hide themselves or walk away when you're in the same area?

Do you guys argue about not being public or official?

He likes you but he isn't sure if you're the one. He doesn't want to invest all of his time and energy into your relationship if he isn't 100% sure it's what he wants. There's also a big chance that he's talking to another girl as he's talking to you, or multiple. He's exploring his choices, trying to find which one works best for him. If he's keeping your relationship low-key, this is probably why. But don't let this discourage you. There's nothing wrong with you, but theres possibly something he's looking for that you don't have. But before you take this quiz as 100% truth, talk to him first. Ask him if he's keeping his options open.

He's Keeping His Options Open

Now, I know what you're thinking. That doesn't sound good at all! But it might not be as serious as you think. This doesn't mean that somethings wrong with you, something is wrong with him. His friends could talk bad about you or a certain female figure in his life isn't fond of you so he keeps your relationship low-key to prevent any judgment from his friends. If you're a "nerd" persay and he's a "jock" , there's a chance he wants to keep his reputation up and he doesn't see you adding positivity. If this is the case, move on sweety. You're too good for someone who isn't going to take pride in being with you. But before you take this quiz as 100% truth, talk to him first. Ask him if he's ashamed of you.

He's Ashamed of You

He's not ashamed and he's not keeping his options open. He simply doesn't want it to be anyone's business and that's okay! Because some things should be left private for a number of things. 1. Rumors could be spread. Now relationships should never be risked. Especially if word gets around that something happened, when it didn't. 2. A relationship takes two people; not his or your friends included. That speaks for itself. 3. Taking things slow. This is important. You don't need to exploit your relationship the second you get into it! Take it slow, get to know more about him, build your relationship before you make it public! But before you take this quiz as 100% truth, talk to him first. Ask him if he doesn't think it's anyone else's business.

He Does Not Think It's Anyone Else's Business

She likes you but she isn't sure if you're the one. She doesn't want to invest all of her time and energy into your relationship if she isn't 100% sure it's what she wants. There's also a big chance that she's talking to another guy as she's talking to you, or multiple. She's exploring her choices, trying to find which one works best for her. If she's keeping your relationship low-key, this is probably why. But don't let this discourage you. There's nothing wrong with you, but theres possibly something she's looking for that you don't have. But before you take this quiz as 100% truth, talk to her first. Ask her if she's keeping her options open.

She's Keeping Her Options Open

Now, I know what you're thinking. That doesn't sound good at all! But it might not be as serious as you think. This doesn't mean that somethings wrong with you, something is wrong with her. Her friends could talk bad about you or a certain male figure in her life isn't fond of you so she keeps your relationship low-key to prevent any judgment from her friends. If you're a "nerd" persay and she's "popular" , there's a chance she wants to keep her reputation up and she doesn't see you adding positivity. If this is the case, move on dude. You're too good for someone who isn't going to take pride in being with you. But before you take this quiz as 100% truth, talk to her first. Ask her if she's ashamed of you.

She's Ashamed Of You

She's not ashamed and she's not keeping her options open. She simply doesn't want it to be anyone's business and that's okay! Because some things should be left private for a number of things. 1. Rumors could be spread. Now relationships should never be risked. Especially if word gets around that something happened, when it didn't. 2. A relationship takes two people; not her or your friends included. That speaks for itself. 3. Taking things slow. This is important. You don't need to exploit your relationship the second you get into it! Take it slow, get to know more about him, build your relationship before you make it public! But before you take this quiz as 100% truth, talk to her first. Ask her if she doesn't think it's anyone else's business.

She Does Not Think It's Anyone Else's Business

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