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My partner and I are trying to have a baby and I've been reading books by other women going through the same thing. The Argonauts by Maggie Nelson, however, tumbled me down a rabbit hole about my purpose in life, how we love other beings, what gender and sexuality are, and the role… Read More

Portland IS annoyingly hipster and bougie. But it's still amazing and I'd never live anywhere else.

Oh God - that's mine, too. I didn't even see the rest of the movie because of that scene, but it haunts me.

Right?!? When the hell does it pass? I'd love to know that.

That a breakup wasn't a failure, and that not all relationships are meant to last forever. The only failure is not learning a lesson and growing from the experience, or trying to force something that isn't healthy for you because you think it NEEDS to last in order to be successful.… Read More

Nope. Serial killer, for sure.

#1 is actually super dangerous and can cause bruising and infection. Plus, it doesn't actually work.

David Bowie as Jareth in Labyrinth - it's like I knew I was going to end up being a lesbian and attracted mostly to the gender-fluid. Either way, "Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave" still gives my little submissive soul shivers.

I looked up at him while we were having sex, realized that he looked like a turtle when he was having an orgasm and dumped him the next day. I just couldn't.

After I moved out, I used to just walk in to my mom's house without even thinking about it - it's home, right? Well, one day I walked in and looked at the couch, where my stepdad was going down on my mom like she was a steak and he hadn't eaten in weeks. I stopped, turned around,… Read More