1. It's alienating.
@everydaysexism I try not to let catcalling bother me,but today its left me crying in public. These men don't realise the impact they have.
Jaine@Jainey_Follow
@everydaysexism I try not to let catcalling bother me,but today its left me crying in public. These men don't realise the impact they have.
03:13 PM - 13 Apr 13ReplyRetweetFavorite
When a smile or nod to a stranger is again and again interpreted as an invitation for a crude remark about the tightness of your jeans, it begins to seem that even this most basic gesture of humanity isn't extended to you.
2. It's not actually about the person being catcalled.
Ok so some guys whistled at me and because I didn't thank them...I get called a wh*re, B**ch and sl*t! Nice. •_•
Sanjana Rob@SanjanaRobFollow
Ok so some guys whistled at me and because I didn't thank them...I get called a wh*re, B**ch and sl*t! Nice. •_•
01:01 PM - 2 Oct 12ReplyRetweetFavorite
See: any time a person is insulted within 30 seconds of being called beautiful, just because that person didn't respond to the initial "compliment" in a way that satisfied the catcaller.
3. It's about control.
"Hold your head up. Senorita, hold your head up.You're pretty, don't look down." #overheard #Bushwick #stoptellingwomentosmile @fazlalizadeh
Catcalls of NYC@CatcallsNYCFollow
"Hold your head up. Senorita, hold your head up.You're pretty, don't look down." #overheard #Bushwick #stoptellingwomentosmile @fazlalizadeh
02:33 PM - 19 Apr 13ReplyRetweetFavorite
Catcalls are directives — Turn around! Come talk to me! Let me see that smile!— which assume at their most basic level an ownership of the woman being catcalled. These aren't innocuous or playful requests; they are symptoms of entitlement, and messages that women don't deserve control over their own bodies.
4. It's embarrassing.
A man just said some disgusting things to me. I felt so embarrassed, & can't even bring myself to tweet them. Street harassment must end.
The Prototype@MelBabyFollow
A man just said some disgusting things to me. I felt so embarrassed, & can't even bring myself to tweet them. Street harassment must end.
10:04 AM - 20 Feb 12ReplyRetweetFavorite
I was embarrassed when I shouldn't have been. I'm entitled to these hips & this behind. I'm not property. http://t.co/EMAVJcig5N
Evette Dionne@EvetteDionneFollow
I was embarrassed when I shouldn't have been. I'm entitled to these hips & this behind. I'm not property. http://t.co/EMAVJcig5N
05:13 PM - 9 Apr 13ReplyRetweetFavorite
In a sample study of 223 reported incidents of street harassment, analyzed by HollaBack! and Worker Institute at Cornell University, 19% occurred with bystanders present. But while witnesses can aggravate a feeling of shame — nothing quite ruins a night like being whistled at while walking with your partner — they aren't necessary factors. The imposition of explicit comments can make the person receiving them feel shame for simply existing.
5. It's dehumanizing.
So my ass just got catcalled. Not me, just my ass. He spoke directly to my ass. #wtf
Erika W. Smith@erikawynnFollow
So my ass just got catcalled. Not me, just my ass. He spoke directly to my ass. #wtf
04:31 PM - 6 Oct 12ReplyRetweetFavorite
It is inevitable that men and women will find other men and women attractive, and often in the absence of any real interaction. What shifts a catcall from innocent and fleeting attraction to objectification in its purest form is the decision to act on it. A catcall reveals a disregard for the woman's humanity, the possibility of her discomfort or irritation or fear, and signals that a woman is nothing more than her body or the ways in which she chooses to dress it.
6. It's invasive.
"Can I get some of that?" I was hugging my roommate on the sidewalk. #catcall #bushwick
"Can I get some of that?" I was hugging my roommate on the sidewalk. #catcall #bushwick
07:46 PM - 8 May 13ReplyRetweetFavorite
By catcalling, harassers insert themselves into the personal space of the harassed: during her commute, her daily jog, her walk to brunch. This puts unwilling women on the defensive on a daily basis, where ignoring the comments isn't seen as an absence of a reaction but instead a transgression, or justification for more verbal assaults.
7. It's scary.
You never know when a catcall can lead to a verbal assault that can in turn lead to physical and/or sexual attack.
Patricia Valoy@Besito86Follow
You never know when a catcall can lead to a verbal assault that can in turn lead to physical and/or sexual attack.
09:39 AM - 27 Sep 12ReplyRetweetFavorite
Waaa some guys in a white van just wolfed whistled at me and now they are turning round and coming back! I'm literally running! :'(
Kerri Brennan@kerribrennaanFollow
Waaa some guys in a white van just wolfed whistled at me and now they are turning round and coming back! I'm literally running! :'(
08:40 AM - 10 Oct 12ReplyRetweetFavorite
In September 2013, a 21-year-old man pulled his car up to a 14-year-old girl in Florida and offered her $200 to have sex with him. When she refused, she was grabbed, choked, tossed aside, and then run over multiple times. Luckily, she survived.
This is not an isolated incident. Throughout the country women have been stabbed, shot, and sexually assaulted for ignoring catcalls with alarming regularity, as Soraya Chemaly at Huffington Post pointed out, and this fact colors every incident of street harassment.
8. It's disempowering.
When the media makes light of street harassment, it reinforces the idea that it's acceptable, that we're "overreacting." #EndSHWeek
Melissa A. Fabello@fyeahmfabelloFollow
When the media makes light of street harassment, it reinforces the idea that it's acceptable, that we're "overreacting." #EndSHWeek
03:07 PM - 10 Apr 13ReplyRetweetFavorite
RT @PermBoxZ: Street harassment is real. Women aren't overreacting or being dramatic. It is happening to us. Every. Single. Day.
Tam@OmgitstamzFollow
RT @PermBoxZ: Street harassment is real. Women aren't overreacting or being dramatic. It is happening to us. Every. Single. Day.
03:13 PM - 13 Apr 13ReplyRetweetFavorite
There's still a good chunk of people who, unfortunately and surprisingly, don't see the distinction between a compliment and harassment. A catcall is disempowering enough in itself — for making the person targeted feel violated, uncomfortable, or threatened — but it is doubly so when complaints about the catcall are silenced.