45 Valentine's Day Gifts For Your S.O. That Don't Suck
Buying the ~perfect~ Valentine's present is tough, so here are 45 ideas. You're welcome.
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1. A customizable necklace with their name, birth date, and birth month flower, because getting jewelry with their birthstone is *so* overdone. Spice it up. Surprise them. *Wow* them.
Celestial by AJ is an LA-based Etsy shop that specializes in customized jewelry. Established in 2020, this shop has been highly rated for its quality and beautiful designs.
Promising review: "The quality of the necklace is fantastic and the engravings on the coins turned out so beautifully! I LOVE this and would highly recommend!" —Lily Schuler
Get it from CelestialbyAJ on Etsy for $34.99+ (available in three finishes and with single or double-sided engraving).
2. A handmade Frappuccino bath bomb that looks so delectable, they'll want to take a bite. This gift combines two of their favorite things: a luxurious bath and the sweet scents of their favorite Starbucks drink, peppermint and mocha.
Sweet Soakin Shop is a woman-owned Etsy shop established in 2020. It specializes in beautifully crafted bath bombs, from Starbucks drinks to Pokémon balls, mermaid tails to cupcakes.
Promising review: "Absolutely darling bath bombs! Bought several for girls at the office. Made cute, memorable Christmas gifts! Great customer service! Thank you!" —SherriAagenesPhoto
Get it from SweetSoakinShop on Etsy for $8.50+ (available in two sizes).
3. A Polaroid camera for capturing your memories together. This one has cool features that you won't normally find on other Polaroids, like a self-timer (group pics!) and auto-focus.
Promising review: "I got this camera right when it was released. Let me tell you, I do not regret it at all. This camera takes amazing photos, plus the camera itself is so pretty. I love it!" —Aaron Arozc
Get it from Amazon for $83.26+ (available in eight colors) and Urban Outfitters for $100 (available in six colors).
4. A suffragette puzzle that'll be a great addition to game night. It features the leaders of the women's suffrage movement, including Hester C. Jeffrey and Elizabeth Cady Stanton. Plus, it has a pamphlet with bonus information about the movement, so *you* can brush up on women's history.
5. A nightgown with floral print, so they can lounge in bed in comfort *and* in ~style~. Made of smooth satin, the fabric is lightweight and loose-fitting, which makes sleeping in comfier.
Promising review: "I ordered these nightgowns for my bridesmaid to get ready for my wedding in! They are so silky soft and comfortable, I cannot wait to gift these to my girls! These feel high-quality and not cheap! I was worried they may be too short, but they touch about mid-thigh, which is exactly what I was looking for! Love these!!" —Stardust002
Get it from Target for $19.99 (available in sizes XS–XXL).
6. A bamboo serving tray shaped like a lotus flower. It's so unique, it'll definitely be the star of your romantic dinners together.
Promising review: "Looks great in the plate rack of my buffet when not in use. Great versatility to display an assortment of foods. Can mix dry and wet ingredients while keeping the integrity of individual textures." —H.B. Tenor
Get it from Uncommon Goods for $48.
7. Love Poems by Pablo Neruda (my absolute FAVORITE poet — and maybe theirs, too!) if you want to woo them with sensual, erotic lines. It's like literary foreplay.
8. A eucalyptus bundle to hang in the shower (hook included!) for a refreshing and relaxing bath. The warm steam releases the oils and aroma, which can help open sinuses when they have the sniffles and relieve stress after a hectic day.
Eucalyptus Blooms is an Etsy shop based in North Carolina and established in 2020. Owned by Nicole, the store specializes in delivering fresh eucalyptus and lavender bundles.
Promising review: "It’s great! Fresh, easy, and I love the hook and adhesive that comes with! Good purchase. Highly recommend!" —Kennedy Rodgers
Get it from EucalyptusBlooms on Etsy for $15.29+ (available in four sizes).
9. A compact mini fridge with a mirrored door that lights up, for keeping their facial serums, creams (and even a chocolate bar or two) nice and chilled. That'll save them the trek to the kitchen when it comes time to do their facial routine.
Promising review: "This mini fridge is the ABSOLUTE BEST! I was concerned about the size, if it would be able to hold the various sizes of my stuff! I'm pleased to say that it certainly does! It has very low noise output, fits perfectly on my bathroom sink, and it looks good, not gaudy. I think the mirrored door WITH the three setting LED is a clever idea, and it adds a little glam to my whole set up. I think you should give it a try, for sure!" —Kimberly V Taylor
Get it from Amazon for $59.99.
10. A custom portrait that'll turn a photograph of you and your bae into a digital hand-drawn illustration. You can customize the text and the background, and you can even send in two separate photographs of yourselves. The artist will combine them into one portrait!
Nibiru Design is a Turkey-based Etsy shop established in 2017. The shop specializes in custom digital portraits for couples and families.
Promising review: "Loved her work! She was so sweet about making two photos personal and how I wanted it! I loved how open she was to making changes to make it look more like me and my boyfriend! Would definitely order form here again!!" —Julianna
Get it from NibiruDesign on Etsy for $80+ (available with fewer or more than two people).
11. A candle to add some ~mood lighting~ to romantic dinners or steamy baths.
12. A DIY fortune cookies kit that you could feed to each other, right after you make them ~together~.
It comes with instructions, a baking mat, edible ink pen, the nonperishable ingredients for making the cookies, and 60 pre-written fortunes. Just provide the egg, vanilla extract, and salt (which you should already have in your pantry).
Promising review: "As someone who loves fortune cookies but only gets to enjoy them when they come free with a meal, this was the perfect gift! The instructions are simple and clear, making the daunting appearance of such a delicate cookie an easy task to take on. The kit comes with pre-made fortunes but includes the option to write your own. A nice touch to an already well prepared kit!" —LIZD
Get it from Uncommon Goods for $28.
13. An engraved music box because it's such a sentimental and thoughtful gift that it just *might* make the tears flow. Have tissues at the ready.
Promising review: "My single mom of four boys used to sing 'You Are My Sunshine' to us growing up before bed every night. When us four (now adult) men gifted this to her for Christmas, it was so small but packed such a huge positive punch. She immediately started crying as she cranked and heard the song. We all looked on in awe...great gift! She keeps it sitting on her fairy shelf. I’ll hear her randomly cranking it when I stop over." —Shane
Get it from Amazon for $13.99 (available in 10 colors).
14. A significant "otters" art print for your cuddle bug who *loves* otters (who doesn't?!) and ~puns~. This gift merits an "OMG how cute!!!"
Studio Marimo is a Redbubble shop that was established in 2012. The store specializes in creating pins, charms, buttons, patches, stickers, phone cases, and art prints with unique designs.
Promising review: "We are so happy with our print. It is currently hanging in our kitchen and looks absolutely gorgeous." —Sarah Y.
Get it from StudioMarimo on Redbubble for $14.15+ (available in three sizes).
15. A super cute ceramic mug with a little surprise inside so you can imagine serving them hot coffee in bed and watching as they take a sip, look into the cup, and — peekaboo! — a cute little cat smiles back.
Promising review: "I usually don't write reviews, but this mug was adorable! I got the flower mushroom one, and I recommend you get this if you're thinking about it because you won't regret it! It has the prettiest little speckles on it, and since it isn't perfectly shaped, it looks handmade. It also has a gorgeous color combination. I will be drinking from this a lot!" —Maya2525
Get it from Urban Outfitters for $12 (also available in flower mushroom).
16. A half dozen makeup sponges for smooth and even makeup application. (It comes in an egg carton, because ~word play~.) Plus, they'll be impressed that you know what a "makeup sponge" is.
Beauty Bakerie is a Black woman-owned business run by Cashmere Nicole. Operating since 2011, Beauty Bakerie specializes in cruelty-free, all-inclusive cosmetics. The brand is also active in educating and informing followers about a variety of issues, including the BLM movement, The Dream Act, and human trafficking.
Promising review: "I’ve been an avid user of the other well-known beauty sponge brand for as long as I’ve been using beauty sponges. However, I was frustrated with spending $20 for ONE. In looking for an alternative, I’ve tried just about everything...and then I tried these. These are THE BEST I’ve used. They don’t absorb ANY product and apply effortlessly and evenly. Truthfully, I believe these are the best beauty sponges out there." —Kelsey H.
Get it from Beauty Bakerie for $18 (available in three colors).
17. A Crosley record player so you two can slow dance to your wedding song. Plus, it has an AUX input, so you can plug in your phone to play something from Spotify.
Promising review: "I use it almost daily to listen to one of my vinyl records. Not only does this turntable play your vinyl records, you can connect any Bluetooth device and enjoy your music through the unit. There is also a headphone jack should you not want to share your music or bother anyone. The case, which contains the turntable, is well-made, stylish, and you can close it when you are listening with your Bluetooth device without any sound interruption." —Wormie
Get it from Walmart for $44.96+ (available in 11 colors).
18. A gift crate filled with ingredients to make their favorite Italian meals. You couldn't go to Italy this year, so why not bring them Italy?
It comes with garlic angel hair pasta, sun-dried tomato flatbread mix, fire roasted bruschetta spread, roasted artichoke heart halves, marinated mushrooms, garlic-stuffed olives, Busseto Milano Italia dry salami, puttanesca pasta sauce, olive oil with sea salt crackers, Mediterranean-style bread dipper spice mix, two ceramic bowls, and a fabric towel.
Promising review: "I was very happy when the basket came in and the wooden box is very sturdy and nice. The person that I bought it for has been on a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Italy, and this was a perfect gift for her; she loved it." —Sheldon
Get it from Harry & David for $139.99.
19. A "my life would ~succ~ without you" succulent gift box, because really, what would your life BE without your boo boo bean? You don't even want to imagine that alternate reality.
Occasionalish is a woman-owned shop based in San Francisco. Run by Candy since 2019, the store specializes in customized gifts such as pins, stationery, stickers, and cards.
Promising review: "So darling! I ordered the 'life would succ without you' succulent for a friend. It was shipped and delivered really quickly. Then it arrived looking perfect! I’ll definitely be ordering again." —Molly Seawright
Get it from Occasionalish on Etsy for $16.25.
20. A snack box filled with vegan chocolates and desserts, so you can get them something that's as sweet as they are.
Hungry Buddha Vegan UK is an Etsy shop established in 2020. Located in Nottingham, the store specializes vegan snack boxes.
Promising review: "Bought as a wedding gift for a close friend. He commented that all the snacks were very tasty, delivery was very fast, and the packaging was beautiful and lovingly put together. Would definitely purchase again. Great communication!" —Raven Fear
Get it from HungryBuddhaVeganUK on Etsy for $21.28 (available in seven options).
21. A wineglass holder, because there's no better way to end a long day than with a calming bath and a glass of their favorite adult drink. Stick this one on your bathroom wall, and if you're nervous about accidents, no worries. It comes with a plastic glass.
Promising review: "This is perfect. Great for taking a shower or relaxing in the tub. I use it very often. And sometimes I'll even use it to prop my cellphone to watch a video while in the bath. Multipurpose. I love it. Such a great idea." —TiredMomOf1
Get it from Uncommon Goods for $38.
22. A bath tray that you can fill with petals, chocolate, and champagne for a romantic soak in the tub. Don't forget to light some candles and play soft music to make it ~moodier~.
Promising review: "When I placed my order for this tray, I looked at the pics but did not realize how really cool this piece is. The ability to change the size is great, but I just love the different trays that are removable, as well as the ability to put my phone and Kindle in 'safe' areas of the tray. I just got it and used it last night, but it appears to be well made, balanced, and offers versatility for the things you may want at your fingertips when taking a luxurious bath!" —SindiMcG
Get it from Amazon for $46.97+ (available in seven colors).
23. A moisturizing cucumber sheet mask for a little self-care sesh with your boo. Put this on, pour two glasses of wine, fill a bowl with popcorn, and put on The Notebook, or whatever their movie of choice is (Shaun of the Dead? I'm not into mushy romance, either).
24. A three-tier chocolate fountain, so you two can spend a candlelit evening feeding each other chocolate-dipped strawberries, aka the fruit of ~love~.
Promising review: "Worked perfectly! Easy to assemble, turned to warm for 10 minutes (while I melted chocolate in a bowl in the microwave), added melted chocolate, and switched on. Fountain was definitely the center piece. Everyone was very excited and it smelled amazing!" —Amazon Reviewer
Get it from Amazon for $69.99.
25. A two-tiered jewelry tray, so they have a place to rest their engagement and wedding rings when they retire for the night.
26. Bad Girls Throughout History, a book filled with stories and fun illustrations of badass women like Angela Davis, Cleopatra, and Josephine Baker to inspire your boo and remind them that you think they're equally remarkable.
27. A portable jewelry box, so they can take their bling with them wherever they go. This is a much better and super stylish alternative to stuffing jewelry in a ziplock bag when traveling. Those days are over!
This box has compartments to better organize jewelry, like four ring rolls to tuck her rings in and a separate, larger compartment for earrings, necklaces, and bracelets. It also has a little pocket inside the lid.
Get it from Nordstrom for $45 (available in three styles).
28. A bath pillow for resting their head on during a long, luxurious bath. This one has multiple suction cups so it can stick to the tub without falling or shifting around.
Promising review: "Perfect for my tub! I have no complaints of this product, and I have had many bath pillows. This one stays attached to my tub and doesn’t slide around. I have used many that slide down or the suction cups come loose...not this one! It still looks new and no smell or sign of mold. I use this probably five out of seven nights a week. It is also comfortable, especially with my neck problems. I would buy it again!" —Deanna Lynn Varn
Get it from Amazon for $29.95.
29. A cushion cover that'll let them know you'll stick by them no matter what. In sickness, in health, in financial troubles, and *even* when they binge watch all of The Queen's Gambit without you. *Gasps*. NO. MATTER. WHAT.
Happy Inky Gift is a London-based Etsy shop established in 2018. The shop specializes in customized prints for home products and clothing, such as aprons, mugs, t-shirts, and pillow cases.
Promising review: "Lovely little gift for our nine-year anniversary. Fast delivery and would recommend. Thanks again." —Jade827
Get it from HappyInkyGift on Etsy for $19.40.
30. A Conair lighted mirror for better illumination when they're putting on their makeup. Plus, it rotates 360 degrees and also magnifies, so they can really see ~all~ the details.
Promising review: "This mirror is not only the perfect height, but it is also the perfect size, weight, and offers the correct lighting to make your makeup look perfect. I've been using it for about a month now and can confidently say that out of the many makeup mirrors I have owned, this is the best. It mimics daylight extremely well so you're not shocked by going into the light and discovering you have on three more layers than necessary. Buy it!" —Jess
Get it from Amazon for $32.29+ (available in three finishes).
31. A pair of indoor fuzzy fox slippers, because they deserve to walk around in a cloud of comfort. Plus, it'll keep their tootsies warm during the chilly seasons.
Promising review: "These slippers are adorable. Warm and comfortable. Looks exactly like the picture. If you're looking for them to just slip onto your feet without any maneuvering, might want a size bigger. Very happy with this purchase." —Aerie
Get it from Amazon for $18.99+ (available in sizes 5–10 and four colors).
32. A matching Mr. and Mrs. pajama set that'll commemorate the day y'all said "I do." Your wedding date and last names will be printed on the sweatshirt and pants, respectively.
Up 2 Our Necks In Fabric is a Rhode Island-based Etsy shop run by Heather and Nicole. Established in 2015, the store specializes in custom shirts.
Promising review: "Bought these matching pajamas for our first Christmas after getting married. We like them a lot! Good quality, very comfy and well customized! We want to recommend this nice cute pajamas to everyone!" —David and Ella
Get the set from Up2ournecksinfabric on Etsy for $46.29 (available in sizes S–XXL; also available individually).
33. A Starry Night paint by numbers kit for beginners complete with paints, brushes, and a canvas. You can finally fulfill their request of taking a painting class together from the comfort of your own home.
Promising review: "I have ordered and completed about 15 paint by numbers, and this is, by far, the best yet...and I am not talking about the picture. The paints were ample and fresh, quality brushes and well stretched canvas. I will definitely be looking for this brand and vendor again!! HIGHLY RECOMMEND!!" —Candigirl
Get it from Amazon for $18.99.
34. A pair of customizable socks with your face printed all over, so they'll always be reminded of you *wherever* they go.
Gift Passion is a woman-owned Etsy shop established in 2019. Run by Sandra, the store specializes in custom gifts and home decor.
Promising review: "Seller was quick and responsive. The socks are great quality and the printing on them looks great. I cannot wait to give them to my husband for Christmas!" —Leanne Diggett
Get it from GiftPassion for $19.55 (available in sizes S–L and three colors).
35. An electric heating pad that'll warm their tootsies or hands during cold evenings. Plus, it's weighted, comes with three heat levels, and automatically shuts off after 60 minutes, so it doesn't overheat.
Promising review: "I got this not to use as a heat pad for sore muscles but to use more as a nice warm weighted blanket to help me relax and sleep on winter nights. It has three temperatures. The hottest setting is pretty warm but not as hot as like a rice pack would be. But on a chilly winter day it will definitely help keep you warm. I got the large size, and it does run true to size. Overall I think it is a great product, and the price is pretty reasonable even just for a weighted blanket this size." —Garret Wendt
Get it from Amazon for $39.99+ (available in two sizes).
36. A stainless-steel tumbler to keep their wine chilled *and* prevent accidental spills with its air-tight plastic cover. No one wants wine on the rug, after all.
Plus, this one is dishwasher-safe, so you don't have to hand wash it. Although it *is* a wine tumbler, it's built for cold *and* hot beverages, so it can be used for other drinks, like warm tea or a strong cup of joe.
Get it from Target for $9.
37. A gel nail polish kit that my roommate has and is *very* happy with it. It has everything they'll need including six gel bases, one top coat, and an LED nail drying lamp so you can treat them to an at-home mani.
Promising review: "The colors are all beautiful. I like this kit especially because of all the additional tools, gems, and such. As long as you follow the directions on timing for using the light and use thin coats (like they do in the salon), it works like a dream!! Would recommend this again and again!" —Paige Shultz
Get it from Amazon for $37.99+ (available in two styles).
38. A swan enamel necklace to show them that your love is ~forever~. Get two so you both can match.
Bonbi Forest is a UK-based Etsy shop established in 2009. Owned by a woman named Lee Foster-Wilson, the store specializes in beautiful custom pins, notebooks, wall art, and greeting cards. Lee's work has been featured in several notable magazines. She has also produced artwork for Urban Outfitters.
Get it from BonbiForest on Etsy for $27.40 (available in two finishes and two chain lengths).
39. A vanity stool that'll be a great addition to their vanity table. It has cushioned padding for extra comfort while they sit and get ready for date night.
Promising review: "Love this vanity stool. When I got it out of the package, it looked super dark, but after a quick and easy installation, it seemed lighter. If you want the beautiful green color to stand out, maybe put it close to a bright light. The stool dolls up my vanity and it puts me in a good mood when I get ready to go out. It's very soft and it's easy to clean if my dog drools on it, which is frequently." —Jane
Get it from Wayfair for $53.99 (available in six colors).
40. An Urban Decay eyeshadow palette that'll bring out the ~sparkle~ in their eyes. This comes with eight shimmers and four mattes that are *cruelty-free* and *vegan*.
41. 100 Things I Love About You, a journal that you can fill with all the things you love about them, as well as reflections on your relationship and fond memories. This'll be a tearjerker, for sure.
42. A matcha kit for whipping up their favorite drink in the morning. This comes with a bamboo whisk and a can of 100% pure matcha from Uji, Japan, which is said to be stronger than a shot of espresso without the jitters and crashes.
Golde is a Black woman-owned business run by Trinity Mouzon Wofford, the co-founder and CEO who started the business from her one-bedroom apartment in 2017. Golde specializes in wellness, beauty, and self-care products, such as facial kits, teas, and lattes, with superfood ingredients.
Promising review: "This is literally the best matcha I have EVER had. As a tea enthusiast, high-quality matcha is important to me, and this stuff is so amazingly smooth and rich, not bitter or grassy or too earthy, just the perfect amount of earthy, rich matcha flavor. Only problem is that there isn't very much. However, supporting a responsible business owned by a black woman is worth it to me. If you can afford it, though, it is genuinely a dream come true, nothing compares!" —Simon K.
Get it from Golde for $42.
43. A "don't go ~bacon~ my heart" matching mugs to give your boo who likes a good punny joke. This twist on this Elton John classic will make them go "awww" after howling in laughter.
Promising review: "Got this as a gift for my friend and her husband and they Loved it! Super cute and made them giggle!" —Maria Diarte
Get it from Amazon for $18.85.
44. A *kind of* romantic but *definitely* hilarious novelty toilet paper for anyone who isn't into mushy Valentine's Day stuff but LOVES a good laugh.
Promising review: "Great packaging and bright, clear readable print! I had to be at work by 6:45 a.m. on Valentines Day for a 12-hour shift so my husband and I celebrated Friday night. But, I put this roll on the holder before I left so he would have a good morning VD surprise, He thought it was funny and told several neighbors. :-)" —Shirley in Georgia
Get it from Amazon for $15.71.
45. A cute panda heating pad that'll keep them comfortable through tummy aches, bad cramps, or sore muscles. It's filled with natural buckwheat grains, so you can microwave it to heat or put it in the freezer to cool. Plus, it smells like lavender!
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