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26 Things Introverts Are Sick And Tired Of Hearing

Yes, I'm totally fine with NOT going out.

We asked the BuzzFeed Community what they were sick of hearing about being an introvert. Here are the cringeworthy results.

1. "You're always so antisocial!"

2. "But you don't SEEM nervous or socially anxious when you're with people!"


—Sarah Nelson, Facebook

3. "When I first met you, I thought you were stuck-up."


—Artimissia Petersen, Facebook

4. "Don't be boring!"

5. "Why are you even here, if you aren't going to talk to people?"


6. "Why are you so quiet?"

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—Gita Diani Astari, Facebook

7. "All you have to do is to talk! It's so easy."

8. "Wait, why do you need alone time?"

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9. "You need to find a hobby or something, so you can meet people!"


10. "You don't come off as very friendly."


11. "You're not saying much — are you OK?"

12. "Don't you get bored staying in your room for hours at a time?"


—Maryhelen Grima, Facebook

13. "Why don't you smile more? Life is good!"


—Jillian Henry, Facebook

14. "You have to be social."

15. "Why do you ignore everyone?"


16. "You're not going to have any friends if you stay in all the time."

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17. "You really need to get out of the house more."

18. "You just need to break out of your shell a little!"


19. "Do you want to hang out, or are you too busy introverting?"

20. "Why are you so awkward?"

21. "You're so serious. Do you ever enjoy yourself?"

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22. "What do you DO all day?"

23. "Why are you so nervous? Socializing is no big deal."


24. "Just get over it — you'll be fine!"

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25. "You'll never find someone if you don't put yourself out there."


26. "The more you go out, the more you'll like it!"

Note: Submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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