Community·Posted on Jan 10, 2019What Dating Advice Do You Have For People Who Hate Dating?Because dating can be...a lot.by Anna BorgesBuzzFeed StaffFacebookPinterestTwitterMailLink Not to be dramatic, but dating is the worst. And if you disagree with me, I'm very happy for you, but also very jealous. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Facebook: BuzzfeedCommunity For a lot of people, dating is kind of a drag even if, logically, we know it'll probably be worth it. So I want to know: What dating advice do you have for people who hate dating? Twitter: @sheastrauss Maybe you've discovered the perfect underrated date activity so you don't have to ~get drinks~ all the time. Twitter: @CornOnTheGoblin Like inviting dates to things you would be doing anyway so you can feed two birds with one scone. Or maybe you have advice for how to end a date gracefully when you know it's not a match. Getty Images Because it sucks when you get stuck on a really long date you're not feeling!! Maybe for you, it was all about changing your mindset — like, looking for reasons to see someone again instead of reasons not to. Twitter: @AmberTozer I'm not suggesting ignoring red flags or anything, but when you're on the lookout for someone's flaws, you'll definitely be able to find them. Or maybe, tbh, you just have a strong opinion on which dating apps are best. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF TV Land / Via giphy.com Whatever it is, share your advice in the comments or via the Dropbox below so we can all feel a little less defeated by dating in 2019. Tap to play or pause GIF Tap to play or pause GIF Olivia Huynh / Via giphy.com And please, skip the advice like, "Just don't date! Focus on you!" There's nothing wrong with seeking a relationship and it doesn't mean someone doesn't already have a strong relationship with themselves. ✨THANK YOU.