We recently asked the members of BuzzFeed Community for their best rimming tips, so here's what they said about upping your ass-eating game.
By the way: A list of tips where every item will appeal to every person probably doesn't exist, so take what you like and leave the rest. Also, it's important to talk about any new or different sex things with your partner before trying them. Consent is everything; please enjoy these tips responsibly!
1. Always, always clean down there properly because, yes, it's true, that's where poop comes out.
2. In fact, wash your partner's ass yourself as a part of foreplay — that way you can make sure it's as clean as you need it to be.
3. Start with moving a flat tongue up and down, then slowly make it more pointed and start circling.
4. Be super liberal with spit.
5. And pay attention to your partner's genitals while you're at it.
6. Penetrate them with a pointed tongue.
7. Stimulate the spot between the anus and the vagina or balls.
8. Don't use teeth on or around the opening — the skin there is reeeally sensitive and prone to irritation.
9. But do incorporate some playful cheek bites, if your partner's into it.
10. Play around with different positions to find out what's best for both the giver and the receiver.
11. And don't be afraid to incorporate a pillow to make the position juuust right.
12. Suction with your lips over the opening and suck on it.
13. Use dental dams.
14. Use your whole tongue, not just the tip.
15. Have your partner sit on your face and push your tongue upward.
16. Blow air and breathe to mix up the sensation.
17. And don't forget to come up for air yourself.
18. Use the old ~spell out words with your tongue~ trick.
19. Douse a rag in mouthwash and keep it nearby just in case you need to do some bad taste damage control.
20. Press against the hole with a finger every now and then.
21. Start super gently to tease and help them relax.
22. Be experimental and pay attention to how your partner reacts to see what *they* like best.
23. Lastly, just be enthusiastic because no one likes a half-assed rim job.
