Health·Posted on Jan 4, 201818 Sex Tips That Are Actually AwesomeSeriously, your sex life *always* has room for improvement.by Anna BorgesBuzzFeed News ReporterLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail We asked the BuzzFeed Community how they improved their sex lives this year. Consider their answers your 2018 sex resolutions. 1. Don’t consent to sex you're not into just because it seems easier to get it over with. Period. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. And just...don't bother having sex with anyone who doesn't turn you the fuck on and make you feel like !!!!! Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. Be a little more selfish. It'll help you get out of your head a little. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. However many minutes of foreplay you think you need, double it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. Stop worrying that toys will ~replace~ a partner and incorporate them into your sex life. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. Become a student of your sex life and take note of what turns you on the most. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. Be open to what you can learn from new or different partners. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. Use safe words, even if you're not doing BDSM stuff. 9. Get comfortable with your own naked body! It's never going to look perfect, especially during sex. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 10. Just try out that thing you're secretly intrigued by already. View this photo on Instagram 11. Or if you're not ready to jump in, do a lot of research and ask a ton of questions so you can feel more comfortable trying it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. Don't just speak up about what you want — speak up if you want your partner to stop doing something, too. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 13. Master the basics, too. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. Have more conversations about what you like and want *outside* the bedroom, too. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. That said, don't take sex too seriously, otherwise it just won't be fun anymore. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 16. Masturbate! And be experimental in your masturbation so you can learn new things about what you like. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Pay attention to your partner's nonverbal cues to learn more about what they like too. 18. And, of course, put pizza rolls in the oven before you start so that when you’re done, you have a snack. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF Follow along at BuzzFeed.com/NewYearsRevolution from Jan. 1 to Jan. 14, 2018. Want to be featured on BuzzFeed? Follow the BuzzFeed Community on Facebook and Twitter!