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Posted on Apr 20, 2017

Do You Want To Help Millenials Fix Their Love Lives?

We need your advice.

These are real relationship woes from BuzzFeed staffers who desperately need your help.

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Names have been changed to protect the innocent-ish.

Our first question comes from Zelda, 27, who says:

  1. Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for nine months. When I asked him to come out to dinner to meet my mom, he freaked out. He said it was too much pressure. That's a red flag, right?

    Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for nine months. When I asked him to come out to dinner to meet my mom, he freaked out. He said it was too much pressure. That's a red flag, right?

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Okay, I've been dating my boyfriend for nine months. When I asked him to come out to dinner to meet my mom, he freaked out. He said it was too much pressure. That's a red flag, right?
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Our next question is from Wario, 26, who says:

  1. My boyfriend sometimes won't text me back for days. We spend enough time together, and he says he's "just not a texting person" but sometimes I feel like he likes ignoring me. Is this a problem?

    My boyfriend sometimes won't text me back for days. We spend enough time together, and he says he's "just not a texting person" but sometimes I feel like he likes ignoring me. Is this a problem?

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My boyfriend sometimes won't text me back for days. We spend enough time together, and he says he's "just not a texting person" but sometimes I feel like he likes ignoring me. Is this a problem?
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This question is from Toad, 25, who says:

  1. I've been dating this guy for about four months and I recently noticed he still has dating apps on his phone. Is that okay? Should I ask why he hasn't deleted them?

    I've been dating this guy for about four months and I recently noticed he still has dating apps on his phone. Is that okay? Should I ask why he hasn't deleted them?

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I've been dating this guy for about four months and I recently noticed he still has dating apps on his phone. Is that okay? Should I ask why he hasn't deleted them?
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This next question comes from Dixie, 29, who says:

  1. I briefly dated a girl, Yoshi, and we remain friends. I just went out with a girl, Samus, and it turns out Yoshi and Samus are friends. I’m really interested in Samus. Should I give Yoshi a heads up, or should I wait to see how things go before saying any

    I briefly dated a girl, Yoshi, and we remain friends. I just went out with a girl, Samus, and it turns out Yoshi and Samus are friends. I’m really interested in Samus. Should I give Yoshi a heads up, or should I wait to see how things go before saying anything?

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I briefly dated a girl, Yoshi, and we remain friends. I just went out with a girl, Samus, and it turns out Yoshi and Samus are friends. I’m really interested in Samus. Should I give Yoshi a heads up, or should I wait to see how things go before saying any
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This question comes from Kirby, 25, who says:

  1. My regular hook-up likes so many other girls' pics on Instagram. Like, a couple is okay, because we’re not official. But is it a bad sign that he likes so many sexy pics?

    My regular hook-up likes so many other girls' pics on Instagram. Like, a couple is okay, because we’re not official. But is it a bad sign that he likes so many sexy pics? 

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My regular hook-up likes so many other girls' pics on Instagram. Like, a couple is okay, because we’re not official. But is it a bad sign that he likes so many sexy pics?
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Our last question comes from Dry Bones, 23, who asks:

  1. We’ve been good friends, with occasional hookups, for four years. Every time we hook up I realize I have strong feelings for them. I confessed my love but they said they don’t feel the same way. Can we still be friends?

    We’ve been good friends, with occasional hookups, for four years. Every time we hook up I realize I have strong feelings for them. I confessed my love but they said they don’t feel the same way. Can we still be friends?

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We’ve been good friends, with occasional hookups, for four years. Every time we hook up I realize I have strong feelings for them. I confessed my love but they said they don’t feel the same way. Can we still be friends?
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