The television show Girlfriends is a groundbreaking series that contained a nuanced and diverse representation of Black women.
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Once you’re dubbed as the “maternal friend," you will always be expected to be one.
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Don’t force romantic relationships.
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Don’t be afraid to be alone.
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Don’t obsess over getting married by a certain age.
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Don’t let toxic friends back in your life.
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Pampering yourself should be a lifestyle.
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Make sure you have an emergency savings fund.
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Heal your childhood trauma.
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Always believe in yourself.
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Don’t be scared to keep it real.
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Don’t be too judgmental.
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Be authentically yourself. Always.
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Have some life goals.
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Being excessively dependent on your friends lessens their respect for you.
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Having a slew of college degrees and post-grad degrees is a waste of money unless you utilize them.
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