3."Make sure you know how to put on a condom properly. Rip the edge of the casing, and find which way it rolls (without unrolling it). Roll it down towards the base of the penis while pinching the reservoir (tip) with one hand while you roll the rest down with your other hand. The purpose of the 'pinch' is to eliminate any air in the condom, because air can cause it to rip."
4."Dont be afraid to use lube. It's not unlikely that the person — who will be the receiving partner — may not produce enough lubricant on their own. This could be because of a lot of factors (like stress, for example). Invest some time in foreplay."
8."Be willing to laugh. One time during doggy, my boobs started actually clapping — like, they were making an actual clapping noise. It sounded like someone was applauding us, and I couldn’t hold in my laughter. Once my partner realized I wasn’t laughing at him, he was laughing too. It made the whole thing 10 times better, and I was a million times more comfortable around him afterward."
11."You’re always, always, ALWAYS allowed to change your mind, no matter how far along things are or how close to finishing someone is. Anyone who says otherwise is not someone you want to get involved with."
13."I think sex is just like doing anything else. When you want to be successful, you need to research, practice, and develop a comfort level with your own sexuality. Research different types of sex and activities, find out what interests you, and focus on how to give pleasure to the other person."