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I'm Genuinely Curious Whether Or Not You've Done These Morally Questionable Relationship Things

BE. HONEST.

The rules here are simple: Respond HONESTLY to the following ~morally questionable~ relationship questions and we'll show you if others have done the same. Don't worry, we don't show anyone how you personally responded, so be as honest as possible! Ready? Okay, here we go!

  1. 1. Starting off simple — Have you ever lied to a partner to save their feelings about something unimportant (like enjoying a movie, food, game, etc. that you didn't)?

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1. Starting off simple — Have you ever lied to a partner to save their feelings about something unimportant (like enjoying a movie, food, game, etc. that you didn't)?
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  1. 2. Have you ever read texts that pop up on your partner's phone without permission?

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2. Have you ever read texts that pop up on your partner's phone without permission?
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  1. 3. Have you ever eaten a partner's leftover food without asking first?

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3. Have you ever eaten a partner's leftover food without asking first?
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  1. 4. Have you ever turned your phone over so that a partner couldn't see who was texting you?

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4. Have you ever turned your phone over so that a partner couldn't see who was texting you?
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  1. 5. Have you ever "borrowed" a partner's things (clothes, tech, etc.) without asking first?

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5. Have you ever "borrowed" a partner's things (clothes, tech, etc.) without asking first?
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  1. 6. Have you ever watched a movie or episode of TV alone that you were supposed to wait to watch with a partner, then lied about it?

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6. Have you ever watched a movie or episode of TV alone that you were supposed to wait to watch with a partner, then lied about it?
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  1. 7. Have you ever lied to a partner to get out of hanging out with their friends?

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7. Have you ever lied to a partner to get out of hanging out with their friends?
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  1. 8. Have you ever referred to someone at a job (who is not your partner) as your "work spouse"?

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8. Have you ever referred to someone at a job (who is not your partner) as your "work spouse"?
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  1. 9. Have you ever confided in someone else about issues you were having with a partner before going to the partner directly?

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9. Have you ever confided in someone else about issues you were having with a partner before going to the partner directly?
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  1. 10. Have you ever had anyone in your phone under a fake name/nickname so that your partner doesn't know who it is — even if it's just a friend?

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10. Have you ever had anyone in your phone under a fake name/nickname so that your partner doesn't know who it is — even if it's just a friend?
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All right, that was easy enough, right? WRONG. Here come some more specific, situational questions:

  1. 11. You're at a bar with friends (your partner is not present) and someone cute offers to buy you a drink. Do you accept?

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11. You're at a bar with friends (your partner is not present) and someone cute offers to buy you a drink. Do you accept?
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    Um...a free drink? HECK YES. My partner and I will laugh about it later.
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    I'd let the person know I'm in a relationship first, but if they still want to pay for it, I'm not saying "No"...
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    That's a HARD NO from me.
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