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    People Shared Things They Find "Erotic" That Involve No Nudity, And TBH, They're Right

    This post is, somehow, equal parts SFW and NSFW.

    Listen — half the time, the sexiest things in the world have absolutely nothing to do with sex itself. It's certainly a weird paradox that I don't pretend to understand, but here we are.

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    And this week, redditor u/pauciradiatus proved it by asking, "What's something you find erotic that doesn't involve nudity?" Anyway, let me just say, WHEW, BUDDY, there are some ~sensual~ answers.

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    So, here are just a few of the completely G-rated things that get people in an R-rated mood:

    1. "When someone touches my hair gently."

    u/mothravioli

    2. "Enthusiasm! Nothing is more pleasing than someone who not only does things with you (doesn’t have to be sexual at all) but is also EXCITED to do them with you. Whether it's a DIY project, going to your favorite restaurant, going for a hike, a hobby, shopping, etc., if the person is excited to do something with you and shows enthusiasm, that is the most erotic thing I can think of."

    u/Gooseman488

    3. "When you're speaking to a woman and she does the 'hair tuck' behind her ears. My heart skips a few beats every time!"

    u/daibz

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    4. "When a man slides his belt out of the belt loops of his jeans...it always makes my heart race a little."

    u/lindsaymichiel

    5. "All right, this is one I discovered not that long ago when my wife and I were lying in bed, ready to go to sleep. She was the big spoon that night (guys, if you haven't tried being the little spoon — trust me, do it), and right as I was falling asleep, she kissed my back, right between my shoulder blades. Let me tell you, I was no longer ready to go to sleep!"

    u/mikeytruelove

    6. "Men in well-tailored suits. I love how it fits their frame, and any man — no matter his size — looks so nice!"

    u/TheSilverGuardian1

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    7. "When a woman wears a men's button-down shirt that's just long enough to cover her so that she doesn't have to wear pants."

    u/Practical_Character9

    8. "Dancing. My ex once dragged me to a dancing class for a wedding. While I couldn't get past the thought of how clumsy and stupid I looked, MY GOD, was it sexy to hold my ex and do the move sets together and just look in her eyes the whole time while feeling her body moving under her dress."

    u/buddy-bubble

    9. "I love it when a guy shows off his strength unexpectedly. Not bodybuilders at the gym or anything — I mean more like someone casually lifting a heavy object out of the way with ease. It just gets me going."

    u/Prissy_Hobbit

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    10. "When a woman does something really goofy and thinks nobody notices, then looks around nervously and only locks eyes with me for a second."

    u/geofox777

    11. "When a guy wearing a dress shirt rolls up his sleeves and bares his forearms."

    u/AffectionatePanic

    12. "When a woman absentmindedly puts her hair up in a ponytail."

    u/CuntyMcGiggles

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    13. "Whenever a car cuts us off suddenly and my husband simultaneously stomps on the brakes and throws his arm out to make sure I’m safe in the passenger seat."

    u/anastaciaknits

    14. "When a woman is lying on her side, and you can see the roller coaster fall and rise of her waist, hips, and legs. This is why art is a thing!"

    u/Jagermeister_UK

    15. "Watching a man loosen his tie...especially if it's done slowly."

    u/samaramatisse

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    16. "Sundresses. For some reason I find a woman in a sundress instantly 100 times sexier than a woman in any other clothing."

    u/HuckleberryThis2012

    17. "Seeing a man be a good father and do something really cute with his baby or toddler. I think there’s something primal about it because my maternal instincts kick into overdrive. I think it's my brain saying, 'He'd make a good mate.' For example, I was at Target recently and this guy was making kissy faces at his daughter, then he gave her a big hug. You could just tell this little girl adored her dad."

    u/princessnanny

    18. "That little wiggle/hop/dance thing that women do when they’re trying to put on jeans, but their butt is just a little too big for them."

    u/wbotis

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    19. "When my man needs to back the car out of the driveway or a parking spot, and he lays his hand on the back of my seat and turns his body to look back, so his neck stretches. When he does that, I want to jump him every time."

    u/km_eriksson

    20. "Specific, but the sound of heels walking on a floor made of marble."

    u/WhyAlwaysMe_45

    21. And finally — "Honestly? Just a really great-smelling person!"

    u/KirriLidian

    Now it's your turn! Do you agree with these? What's something that involves no nudity but you can't help finding a little erotic? Share in the comments below!

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    Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity. H/T: Reddit!

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