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    This Gay Doctor Is Going Viral For Teaching The Next Generation How To Be Out And Proud In Their Profession

    "I want anyone who is struggling with accepting their identity to see that you can be out and proud and thriving in life."

    Did you know that one in six Gen Z adults identify as a part of the LGBTQ community? Though this number has steadily increased between 2012 and now, there remains little information about how many practicing medical doctors — those who directly serve this growing community — openly identify as the same.

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    A few organizations have taken it upon themselves to survey their own groups. One of these is the American Academy of Family Physicians, which represents physicians, residents, med students, and more, and they reported that merely 3.2 percent of their members identify as LGBTQ.

    Having noticed the lack of LGBTQIA+ representation in medicine, TikTok's @ThatGayDoctor — a primary care physician in Chicago who prefers to go by his username for privacy — made it his mission to increase queer visibility in the office and online.

    "I want to increase queer visibility using TikTok in order to show everyone that you can balance being a respectable professional while also being your authentic self," @ThatGayDoctor told BuzzFeed. "I know that the platform is largely targeted toward youth, and I want anyone who is struggling with accepting their identity to see that you can be out and proud and thriving in life."

    In just a year's time, @ThatGayDoctor has garnered over 510,000 followers who find his videos about removing judgment from medical appointments, being his full self while on the job, and campaigning for minority communities to be a breath of fresh air.

    One TikTok user said they're a medical student who doesn't identify as part of the LGBTQ community but loves the videos because it shows them how to be more inclusive
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    Another person said they wished he was their doctor
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    A TikTok user praised the doctor's sense of style
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    "So many of us can be out and proud in our lives, but feel like we have to mask our true identity in the workplace," he told BuzzFeed. "I think it comes out of fear of being met with homophobia, and I want to show people that it's okay to be out and proud."

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    He often uses his platform to challenge harmful stereotyping and openly addresses why talking about being gay can be crucial for advancing equality:

    @thatgaydoctor

    the same logic applies to other minority groups. If you can’t relate, please recognize that you are lucky. #perspective

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    Further appealing to young adults who are coming into their own identities, @ThatGayDoctor even wrote a rap about being a gay doctor who advocates for mental health and is sex positive. Rhymes include: "I won't shame you for having sex and I'll use your right pronouns/I get to dress like this but you still have to wear these gowns" and "If you don't want to be judged then you've come to the right place/I'll help you with your problems, I'm not just a pretty face."

    @thatgaydoctor

    just to get my new followers up to speed. Thanks for 80K ❤️🏳️‍🌈 #gaydoctor #lgbtq #medicine #primarycare

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    Due to his openness, the 29-year-old has been approached by aspiring LGBTQIA+ doctors who aren't sure how to navigate professional life while remaining authentic. "I will often get messages from medical students and residents asking me about whether or not they should be out at school/work or talk about it in job applications/interviews," @ThatGayDoctor said. "There is a huge fear that they will be judged or excluded for sharing this integral part of their personal life. Many people who are out in their personal lives go back into the closet in the workplace in order to 'be professional.'"

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    And @ThatGayDoctor is thrilled to have become the kind of representation he needed when he was younger. "I didn't come out to anyone until the last year of my undergrad. I had an awesome, supportive friend group, who made it clear via their social circles that they would be accepting of me being gay, but I still was in my head about it so much," he said. "I wish I had been able to accept my sexual orientation at a younger age, and often wonder about how it would have impacted my life trajectory. Of course, I think things worked out pretty well, but there will always be the 'what ifs' that I wonder about."

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    For every physician like @ThatGayDoctor, more people within the LGBTQIA+ can defeat their "what ifs" and feel more confident about living their lives to the fullest.

    One person said that "As a parent to an LGBTQIA+ child, I am incredibly grateful to you and your content"
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    If you want to hear more from @ThatGayDoctor, you can follow him on TikTok and Instagram.

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