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This Girl's Harvard University Admissions Essay Is Going Viral, And It's Inspiring For Anyone Who Has Lost A Parent

"As I write this essay, there is a blue line under the word 'parent' telling me to check my grammar; even Grammarly assumes that I should have parents, but cancer doesn't listen to edit suggestions."

This is Abigail Mack, an 18-year-old student who was recently accepted into Harvard University's class of 2025. And though getting into an Ivy League school with a record-breaking low admissions rate of 3.43% is quite the feat, her journey there is what has caught the internet's attention.

When Abigail shared her college admissions essay on TikTok, over 19 million people tuned in for the heartfelt series that illustrated the life of a teen who tries to escape the reality of losing a parent by filling her time with extracurriculars:

"I hate the letter 'S,'" Abigail's college admission essay begins. "Of the 164,777 words with 'S,' I only grapple with one. To condemn an entire letter because of its use .0006 percent of the time sounds statistically absurd, but that one case changed 100 percent of my life. I used to have two parents, but now I have one, and the 'S' in 'parents' isn't going anywhere."

Abigail's essay, which also earned her admission to top schools like Northwestern and Notre Dame, goes on to explain how she attempted to distract herself from the letter "S" — or the thought of being without her mother — by taking up sports, clubs, and other school activities. "You can't have dinner with your parent...if you're too busy to have family dinner," she said. "I couldn't fill the loss that 'S' left in my life, but I could at least make sure I didn't have to think about it. There were so many things in my life I couldn't control, so I controlled what I could — my schedule."

Eventually, Abigail stopped picking up an assortment of roles and began noticing she favored three: theater, academics, and politics. Soon, she was no longer running away from "S," but chased a double "S" instead – paSSion. Abigail had found her callings and paths that would motivate her, instead of busywork that simply kept her distracted.

"'S' got me moving, but it hasn't kept me going," Abigail concluded in her essay. "I don't seek out sadness, so 'S' must stay on the sidelines, and until I am completely ready, motivation is more than enough for me."

Then, three weeks prior to decision deadlines, Abigail noticed a status update on her application and filmed her candid reaction upon opening it. "I received a Likely Letter, which informs an applicant that they’ve been admitted prior to the official decision release date in the hopes that the applicant will make the school their first choice," Abigail told BuzzFeed. "Likely Letters are really rare, and I’m so fortunate to have received one! My reaction was…interesting. There was a lot of screaming — I didn’t have a voice for about a week afterwards — and I was on the verge of tears."

The teen's video series touched the hearts of many who were either inspired by her diction or who related to her story of navigating loss:

how crazy how similar we are, I DID THE EXACT SAME THING to handle my grief, ijust literally became involved in everything I could
so this is what a great writer looks like

In addition to her affinity for academics, Abigail spoke to BuzzFeed about the other passions she found through her grieving process, as well as the impact they've had on her life: "I grew up in a very artistic family — my mother opened a dance studio that my father still runs, and my father is a piano teacher — so theater has always been part of my life," she said. "There [is] something cathartic in escaping to a new world and being someone else for even just a few hours on stage."

"Politics is a newer passion," the 18-year-old continued. "When the Black Lives Matter demonstrations were occurring this past summer, I realized how passionately I felt about politics. I knew that I could no longer stand idly by and watch as the world made leaps forward without me. I became a fellow on Senator Ed Markey’s re-election campaign and also taught volunteers how to phone bank for Joe Biden’s campaign. It was extremely gratifying to feel like my voice was being heard."

Though she’s entering freshman year with an undecided major, Abigail plans to pursue humanities and social sciences with a possible focus in foreign policy and French. Maybe she’ll be an actor, maybe she’ll work for the government, or maybe she’ll become a speechwriter or author. Right now, Abigail doesn’t have a definitive career path. She wants to try it all. She’s still chasing paSSion, her motivating double "S."

"Pour your passion, whatever it is, into every fiber of your application," Abigail advises future college applicants inspired by her story. "Your college application is a culmination of everything you’ve done in high school. You’ve already put in the work, so the hardest part is done. Now, you just have to put pen to paper, share what you’ve accomplished, and, most importantly, illustrate how you plan to make a difference going forward in your own, unique way."

If you want to keep up with Abigail through her Harvard journey, you can follow her on TikTok and Instagram. And you can listen to Abigail read her full admissions essay by viewing her series, starting here.