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    18 Tiny Secrets To Make Your Life Better

    Small ways to practise self care.

    1. Try to start your lists with “I can”, not “to do”.

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    I know this sounds falsely positive and even a little lame, but it makes such a difference. When I started doing this, tasks that seemed like they were overshadowing my day became things that I could choose to do. Splashing out on some nice stationery makes a change too.

    2. Change your alarm.


    “When I was 18 I bought myself a radio alarm clock and it changed my life,” Flo says. “It’s my greatest life tip. Waking up to music or voices is so much nicer than waking up to an alarm. You don’t have to immediately turn it off, which means you are less likely to turn it off and fall straight back to sleep, and you don’t have to move. Also, waking up to a slightly different sound each day means you don’t have one sound that always makes you wince.” – Flo Perry

    3. Take a couple of minutes to stretch.

    Get started with these 10 easy stretches.

    4. Create a banging playlist.


    On a day that you’re feeling on top of the world, make a playlist for days when you’re down. It can be easy to overthink these playlists (“It must be inspiring! The mix must be seamless!”) but honestly, just add songs that you like, in no particular order. Or if selection isn't your forte, then Spotify's Mood Playlists are great.

    5. Try to make one healthy change a week.

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    “It’s the oldest rule in the book, but waking up earlier has meant that I can sit down, eat breakfast, and take some time for myself before I have to get ready for work. I usually take half an hour to read a book or watch a short episode of a TV show while I eat my Bran Flakes with raisins (eat your fibre, folks), a banana, and coffee.

    “My mornings feel so much less rushed, and I’m a lot less stressed when I get into work. Plus, my stomach no longer starts asking for lunch at 10:30am like it used to. Take it from me: Eating breakfast makes you feel like a real adult person.” – Ellie Bate

    6. Tidy for 10 minutes each day.

    7. Buy yourself flowers.

    8. Make your phone a happier place.


    Whenever I’m feeling glum, I look at my stupid phone wallpaper (it’s that really chill, smiling shiba inu in the photo) and I always feel better. Whether it’s a photo of your own dog (this particular shibe is just from googling “happy dog” – my methods may be crude but they are effective) or your boo – make your phone background bring a smile to your face.

    9. And remember to put your phone down.

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    “I’ve been trying to leave my phone in other rooms when I’m around the house so I can focus on reading a book, or watching the telly, or staring into space, so I don’t obsessively check the internet every second of the day.

    “On that note, I’ve also turned notifications off all my social media apps. That way I still check into them now and again, but not every single time an alert pops up.” – Laura Silver

    10. Go for breakfast with friends before work.

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    Once a month I get up early and go for breakfast with my work besties. I look forward to it every time. It’s the best start to the day (gossip + pancakes) and puts such a spring in my step.

    11. Get moving.

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    “I like walking everywhere. It clears my head and provides actual space to think and just be mentally idle that even sitting still has a hard time providing in a world overwhelmed by the constant draw of screens and a million other stimuli.

    “So I walk for miles and miles every day, and I’ve noticed a visible change in my mental state for the better. I’m often prone to a general recurring state of overhanging sadness when left idle, and I’ve yet to find a way that keeps the demons so often at bay as this.

    “On top of everything, it’s actually useful in a very practical way, as it literally gets you to where you’re going”. – Rebecca Hendin

    12. Keep everything in the same place.

    Flo Perry

    “I used to get in a massive stress every morning looking for my keys, wallet, work pass etc because I used to leave them lying around the house or in various pockets.

    “Now when I get home from work as soon as I walk into my room I empty my pockets and put my keys, headphones, train pass, wallet, bike lights, work pass etc. in a nice shoebox by my front door. It saves me so much stress now in the mornings as I’m not having to go through all my coats and jeans pockets wondering where I left them. I suppose you could put it in the kitchen or wherever it is you go when you get in at the end of the day. ” – Sophie Gadd

    13. Throw out one item of clothing.

    “I keep a bag of things to go to the charity shop in my wardrobe all the time. It’s not very big, like a large tote bag, and when it’s full I take it to the charity shop.

    “If I buy something new and I don’t have a hanger for it I’ll find something I don’t wear and put it in the bag. I never miss anything I put in the bag. I often feel guilty giving away clothes, because it feels like a waste of money, especially ones you haven’t worn very often but have been in your wardrobe for ages. But actually I never wear them, I’d rather buy new clothes than wear my old ones I don’t really like, and you are actually doing something good by giving clothes to charity. It’s so much easier constantly editing your wardrobe than having a big clean out once a year.” – Flo Perry

    14. Schedule self-care Sunday.

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    Self-care Sunday means “time not caring for others, but yourself”. This could mean taking a nap, or watching an episode of Stranger Things, or doodling aimlessly. Whatever allows you to take a little break and press reset.

    15. Watch a beloved movie from childhood.

    16. Have a wash.

    17. Watch a documentary.


    “I find that watching documentaries is a great way to unwind, because you’re ~technically~ just watching a film, but you’re also learning something. I always finish a documentary feeling like my brain has been enriched in some way. Netflix’s documentary selection is great because they have something for literally any mood you’re in – I recommend The Hunting Ground for something quite intense, or Twinsters if you want something a little bit more light-hearted and fun.” – Ellie Bate

    18. Open up to your friends.

    Zachary Gibson

    “It takes guts to ask for help. Often it means admitting you’re vulnerable, but this isn’t a bad thing. Asking for help actually means you’re being proactive about your situation. It’s important to confide in someone before your problem escalates into a catastrophe. Don’t be afraid to say: “I need this.” Learn to open up and share and be there for others the way you hope they might be there for you.” - Maggy Van Eijk

    If you enjoyed this post, then keep an eye out for my weekly series: 7 Tiny Changes To Try Out This Week

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