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    11 Of The Worst Things You Can Say To Someone Struggling With Infertility

    "Are you sure you're doing right?" — Your mom

    1. “Are you pregnant yet?”

    2. “Maybe having children is not in God’s plan for you.”

    3. “Just be patient.”

    4. “Have you tried the fertility diet?”

    5. “At least you still get to sleep in on weekends!”

    6. “Everything happens for a reason.”

    7. “Why don’t you just adopt?”

    8. “I got pregnant my very first cycle off the pill.”

    9. “Even though you miscarried, at least you know you can get pregnant.”

    10. “You just must be too stressed.”

    11. “Well at least you can have fun trying!”

    So what should you do?