Good Lord, y’all. She probably had contact with her bridal party, or her husband, and was planning her wedding as normal. You have no idea what was her picking and choosing and what was his. So lay off, I would have been ecstatic if someone had done this for me. As long as someone knew what my general idea was then have at it. Planning a wedding is so freaking stressful. Good for him. Too many people assume it’s the bride’s day and ONLY the bride’s day.