I don’t understand why conversations about people other than our selves end up becoming about the people talking. Most of us have some sort of privilege and likely multiple privileges which WILL affect how we see everything so lets just acknowledge that and talk like the un-experts we are (unless you are actually a certifiable expert with the credentials and experience to prove it). We also don’t understand what its like to be a kid because we are all adults and scientifically speaking can not have full memory access to our childhood. What we probably should talk about is how we can support kids on their gender journey and be an unbiased (as much as possible)resource for them.
Also, please educate yourself first on the topic at hand if you’re going to be rude.