I really don’t see what is the f-ing problem. My wife cooks, I don’t. She didn’t lift a thing heavier than her lipstick since we met, I did. She knows how to drive but chooses not to - I dive her where she wants and pick her up when she wants. We both do everything around our kids, equally. I’m working 2 jobs and make 80% of our income, she chooses a lousy paid job because its something she likes to do (and has one of my CCs with no limit on it). I’m not doing the laundry.
We are still married after 7 years of this and two beautiful daughters. And no one ever complained. SO WTF IF SHE MAKES HIM SANDWICHES?!?