40 Personal DIY Details From Real Weddings
The weddings of strangers are always fun to look at – whether you’re planning a wedding yourself, throwing a party, or just daydreamin’. All of these examples are from real couples who found unique ways to imbue their wedding day with personality and love.
Invitations and Programs
Adorable hand-drawn illustration invitation.
Save the date, invitation, coasters, and mix CD all designed by the groom.
Programs that double as fans, designed by a friend of the bride and groom, using their thumbprints for the heart.
Clothes and Accessories
These bridesmaids are wearing dresses made from vintage Star Wars fabric, commissioned by the bride from the Rusty Cuts Etsy shop.
…and there were matching flower girls!
Handmade dress using vintage tablecloths. The bride says “I chose to design my own dress because I had originally wanted a vintage dress, but found that the nicest ones were out of my price range.”
Bouquet made of felt and buttons, handmade by the bride. Here’s a DIY guide for something similar.
Ceremony and Signage
Paper hearts on wooden dowels, made by the couple, lining the aisle for the ceremony.
Backdrop made by the bride and groom using moss and pages from old books.
The couple asked all of their guests to bring a “heart” of some kind and they hung them up in the “tree of love” near their ceremony.
Guest Books
A “guest book” consisting of Jenga blocks signed by the wedding guests.
This couple used a tablecloth as their “guest book,” instructing guests to sign directly on the cloth laid out under their world map seating chart. The bride said “I’m going to embroider over each entry and use it at our next dinner party.”
Food and Menus
Menu screen-printed on napkins (with button holes!) by a friend of the couple.
Labels for food at the reception. These can be made by buying those plastic animal figurines you can get at any toy store and adding a “clip” using gardening wire, then spray painting the whole thing in the color palette of your celebration.
This couple invited guests to enter a cake competition and the cakes were judged by the top table. First, second, and third place earned rosettes from the bride and groom, and everyone went home with to-go boxes stuffed with cake.
Rainbow cake handmade by a friend of the couple. Recipe/instructions can be found at Whisk Kid.
Donut station, where you got to grab a shot of glaze and then put on your own toppings.
Reception Decor, Tables, and Seating Arrangements
Escort cards written on rocks handpicked by the groom by the Sacramento river, a favorite spot for the couple.
These tables were labeled with pages from an old dictionary, printed with illustrations and titles and framed.
Kid’s table with silly straws & flower lollipops planted into a grass centerpiece
This couple created their table centerpieces with arrangements of beloved personal objects from their own home, their parents, and friends.
Paper flower centerpieces made by the bride.
“Rather than use tableclothes or placemats, we bought large, white doilies and came up with personal messages for our guests that Lauren hand-wrote in her amazing and unique calligraphy. Some messages were specific (to our parents) and other were general messages that we wanted to share with our guests.”
Reception tent designed by couple and their families. The couple’s moms collaborated on the floral design, the bride’s mom made the bunting, and the bride and groom collected the objects used in table arrangements.
Carnival-themed decorations and escort cards, handmade by one of the brides. Instructions for the drink flags and the pom poms over at So You’re Engayged
Guest Favors
Succulents planted in books. Centerpieces that doubled as favors – here’s the DIY instructions.
A hand-drawn/written recipe card featuring the groom’s father’s pancake recipe along with its “secret” ingredient - vanilla extract.
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JoeBingham013 a month agoAmazing. My mother suggested that I have decorative birdhouses for mine. They can be great at times but I’m thinking not. It’s just not my style but I think that it would have worked for this.
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winkypants 7 months agoI had DIY stuff at my wedding, but less for the cute factor, but for the cheap-and-still-reflects-my-creativity factor. Made my own paper flower centerpieces with lollipops, sewed some cheap table cloths, made my wildflower seed favors from bulk seeds and printed paper. It was cute, but super cost-effective!
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M W 7 months agoHaving reached that age where not only I, but many of my friends, have gotten married, I can say that DIY is very popular indeed and lends a really nice touch. Since hubby is from another country than me, we essentially had two ceremonies- one in my country, the wedding, and a consecration ceremony here for his family. For the stateside wedding, my mom did our flowers, I knitted our ring pillow, and my mom helped me make my veil (there was a TON of other stuff we did ourselves, but won’t list it all). My friend who did our engagement pictures and her now-husband did their own invites, complete with xkcd references. My best friend who got married this summer had fabric squares and washer-safe pens so everyone could write a message after the ceremony. Her mom then made a quilt from them. Not only were all of these a lot of fun, but they were so much more personal than just going and buying something that was more expensive and probably lower-quality. I love these ideas but am glad I’m done with planning it all (twice!)
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senoritagrey 7 months agowell i liked all of this and whats more id like to plan a wedding now…what?
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senoritagrey 7 months ago.:slowlyraiseshand:. my mom makes me take the flower centerpieces.
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boopbop 7 months agoi’m in the midst of planning my own wedding and there are so many fun ideas out there, but its really not worth the time or money for a lot of it. i’m definitely aiming for unique and fun wedding (i.e. not in a church or reception hall) but these little details can get pretty self indulgent. no one else will notice or care about flowers in your programs or the font on their place markers. good people, good music and good food are all that your guests will appreciate or remember.
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everaftering 7 months agoDon’t worry, I’m a girl but I can hardly understand the logic of it too
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kristicolleen 7 months agoElaborate weddings are so exhausting and silly. And I’ve had one, so I know. Nobody is going to remember this stuff a year after you get married, not even you. Save your money for the honeymoon.
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leeters 7 months agoUgh, hipsters suck! They’re so creative and lame. Honestly, I’d rather attend a “hipster” wedding any day than a normal, run of the mill one. I don’t care for weddings in general, but at least these kinds of weddings are more personal and interesting. That being said, if you’d rather have a traditional wedding, good for you!
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