No, it is still the same thing. Many young women believe they are entitled to a relationship just because a man finds her sexually attractive. She may be nice, make little demands of him, make herself openly available and he still doesn’t want a relationship. Saying men have commitment issues to the extent that he really likes a girl but isn’t willing to commit to her is simply not true. Both situations I described above were of one sided interest. Both sides are able to get what they want with giving little in return. A woman who uses the phrase my guy BFF and knowingly uses him for emotional comfort is on the exact same footing as the guy who sleeps with a girl but she is cool like one of the guys. Both are douche bag behaviors and damaging in the long run.