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Straight Soccer Player Says It’s Time For Gay Athletes To Come Out

Matt Jarvis, who plays for the Premier League club West Ham United, makes an appeal to closeted athletes in latest issue of Attitude.

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Matt Jarvis striped down for Attitude, the gay-focused UK magazine, AND also took the time to discuss homosexuality in sports.

On why a gay athlete should come out:

“It’s everyday life. It’s not something that’s going to be a shock. I’m sure there are many footballers who are gay, but when they decide to actually come out and say it, it is a different story. It’s one that I’m sure they’ve thought about many times. But it’s a hard thing for them to do.”

On the idea that being out would enhance an athlete’s performance:

“I’d agree with that. Because you’ve always got something you’re worried about at the back of your mind. If you can let that go and then just concentrate on your one goal, which is whichever sport you’re doing to the best of your ability, I think that would help. Definitely.”

On why athletes should feel comfortable with being out:

“There’d be support everywhere within the football community, whether it be players, fans or within the PFA [Professional Footballers’ Association]. There would definitely be groups of people who would be supportive and help them through it.”

Jarvis also made history as the third (straight) soccer player to ever appear on the cover of the magazine. David Beckham graced the cover in 2002 and Freddie Ljungberg in 2006.

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    • ringdinger 5 months ago

      Maybe he should come out first before telling others to!… no but really, it’s an invalid point unless it’s coming from a gay athlete. I’m assuming since he’s straight, he doesn’t really know what it’s like to have to hide his sexuality, and how bigoted some people still are today. It’s very easy for a straight guy to tell others “hey, why don’t you just come out already?” They’ve never known the levels of judgement or scorn that most closeted individuals fear on a day-to-day basis. His comments are completely pointless coming from a heterosexual male athlete. They even come off as a tiny bit hinting towards an ulterior motive, as if he’s saying, “Somebody should come out! Not me though, because I’m definitely not gay….nope.” I could be wrong, but the way he says it comes off a little awkward. Oh well, I guess whether he’s gay or not doesn’t matter much either way.

    • Wombatish 5 months ago

      This feels a tiny bit ‘wink wink nudge nudge’. Someone should. Someone really should! But not me. Nooooo. Because… I’m not gay. Nope. Could be completely wrong but it’s just a really awkward phrasing otherwise. /shrug. Not like it matters much either way (if he is or isn’t gay).

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    • genina 5 months ago

      It’s so easy for straight people to say “why don’t you just come out already!!!!!!” to queer people. They’ll never know the kind of persecution or judgment that some of us fear on a daily basis. Completely pointless coming from a heterosexual male athlete.

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    • MMR 5 months ago

      Invalid point unless it’s coming from a gay athlete. Since he’s straight, he has no idea what it’s like to have to hide and doesn’t realize how bigoted people still are.

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