1. Talking to someone else who is already out:
2. Online dating:
3. Attending big family gatherings:
4. All the LGBT lingo and slang:
5. Talking openly about your sexuality:
7. Gay bars:
8. Your constant mantra:
9. How you feel about your sex life:
Sarah Karlan is the Deputy LGBT Editor for BuzzFeed News and is based in New York.
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