I’m not offended by songs like these, but I do dislike them because I’ve dated REALLY creepy guys who said things like this, and they were totally negging. It’s really hard to explain, but it always made me so uncomfortable. One guy I dated would always say things like, “No matter what anyone else thinks, you’re beautiful to me.” Um… thanks? Is that supposed to be a compliment? Did he realize how rude that was? As though there were a crowd of villagers at my door, torches in hand, telling me otherwise, but he alone saw my beauty! Yuck.