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What Do You Wish You Knew Before You Started Using Sex Toys?

Tell us your top secret tips and tricks.

Toys — like dildos, vibrators, plugs, and clamps of various kinds — can make sex even more awesome.

But when you're totally new to buying, using, and caring for them, you might not know where to start or what to do.

So we want to know: What are your best sex toy tips?

Maybe you have an absolute favorite product and everyone you've recommended it to is obsessed with it.

Maybe you have some great advice for incorporating toys into your partnered sex life.

Or maybe you use a common toy in a pretty ~uncommon~ way and it's actually amazing tbh.

So tell us: What are your tips for having awesome sex with a toy (or toys!)?

Whether it's a product recommendation, a technique you do or have had done to you, or even just some solid advice about buying and caring for your toys, we want to hear it.

Drop it in the comments and your advice might be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Health post!