We asked members of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us their best tips for using sex toys. Here's what they said.
1. Before buying a vibrator, test it on the tip of your nose.
2. Make sure you know what kind of lube and cleanser you should use with your toy.
3. And beware of porous toys: They can disintegrate when not used/cared for properly.
"And it's so gross."
4. When you're comfortable being vocal about what you like during sex, you're ready for toys.
5. FYI guys use sex toys, too.
6. If you're nervous about toy shopping, pretend you're just buying a household appliance.
7. Dual-density toys (soft on the outside and rigid on the inside) are worth the $$$.
8. You might have to try a few different things before you find what works for you.
"When you see something that kind of calls to you: buy it, try it, and if it's not for you then you can always look around again for something different. You can even keep it in case your partner enjoys using it instead. It can end up costing you some money in the long run, especially if you buy a bunch before finding the right one for you."
—Hayle Storm, Facebook
9. So try a few cheaper things before spending big.
10. But if you do want to go big, consider LELO products.
11. "A compass is to a map what a vibrator can be to an orgasm."
12. But know that you might not have an orgasm the first time you use a new toy.
13. Always put on a new condom when you switch holes.
14. If there's no good or safe place to shop in person, go online.
15. Before you buy a vibrating toy, make sure you know how loud it'll be.
16. If it goes in your butt, make sure it has a flared base.
17. Read sex toy reviews in comic form at ohjoysextoy.com.
18. Save money by investing in rechargeable batteries.
19. And take them out between uses.
20. Get something that thrusts and vibrates.
"The Stronic Eins changed my life. It *thrusts* and vibrates. It may be the pinnacle of human achievement to date. Definitely use lube and you may want a bullet for clitoral stimulation to get started, but it is truly a magical thing."
21. Be super careful when trying glass dildos.
22. Try some ~non-realistically~ shaped toys.
23. If you're doing bondage-related stuff, have some safety shears nearby for emergencies.
24. PSA: Keep your pets away from your toys.
25. You should pee after having a toy inside you.
26. Try a toy with variable speeds, movements, and vibrations.
27. Bigger isn't always better.
28. And remember: Using sex toys doesn’t mean you aren’t satisfied with your sex life.
Responses have been edited for clarity and length.