Dear Kyle, I rarely leave comments on articles/op-eds, but I thought that I’d write a few words this time. Well first, I think that what you are talking about here is a very valid and an important discussion that ‘we’ as a community need to engage in more often. The fact that so many people on this page deem it so controversial only emphasizes the importance of the question. At least in US, most of us are aware that having ‘risky’ sex could result in having to live with HIV for the rest of life. But the number of newly diagnosed infection hasn’t gone down in recent years. As an educated person who come across the similar question that you posit in this article, I appreciate your honesty and braveness to point out this important social issue!